https://feeds.blubrry.com/feeds/pureorgasmiclove.xml Pure Orgasmic Love https://pureorgasmiclove.com https://pureorgasmiclove.com Discover your orgasmic life!<br /> I'm Dragonfly. I believe everyone deserves to learn how to embody more connection and pleasure so they can create fulfilling relationships and profoundly passionate sex to live an Orgasmic Life. <br /> I graduated from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality with a degree in Sexology. As well as trained as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and Somatica® practitioner. <br /> Living as a sex-positive, ethically non-monogamous, kinky woman, a wife of over 2 decades, lover, business owner, and educator, along with a few other identities. I know how difficult it can be to balance everything and still be sexy and thrive.<br /> Join me in these candid and vulnerable conversations that happen within the judgment-free space that is Pure Orgasmic Love. episodic Dragonfly Discover your orgasmic life! I'm Dragonfly. I believe everyone deserves to learn how to embody more connection and pleasure so they can create fulfilling relationships and profoundly passionate sex to live an Orgasmic Life. I graduated from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality with a degree in Sexology. As well as trained as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and Somatica® practitioner. Living as a sex-positive, ethically non-monogamous, kinky woman, a wife of over 2 decades, lover, business owner, and educator, along with a few other identities. I know how difficult it can be to balance everything and still be sexy and thrive. Join me in these candid and vulnerable conversations that happen within the judgment-free space that is Pure Orgasmic Love. no podcast en-us Copyright 2026 Pure Orgasmic Love Copyright 2026 Pure Orgasmic Love Dragonfly https://pureorgasmiclove.com https://assets.blubrry.com/coverart/orig/32817-1611097762.jpg Pure Orgasmic Love Open and Honest conversations about finding more pleasure and creating orgasmic lives. Blubrry Podcasting: https://www.blubrry.com/ no http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss 400bf2d4-e711-5be9-8a1d-012258a2d81f Wed, 11 Jun 2025 08:05:00 -0400 Wed, 11 Jun 2025 08:05:00 -0400 #041 – Are You Lying to Yourself? https://blubrry.com/pureorgasmiclove/146047385/041-are-you-lying-to-yourself/ https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=102103 Dragonfly Wed, 11 Jun 2025 08:05:00 -0400 0:17:40 false Dragonfly How often do you say “I’m fine” when your body tells a different story? In this honest and transformative episode of Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast, w/Dragonfly, she explores the subtle yet big ways we lie to ourselves—and why. How often do you say “I’m fine” when your body tells a different story? In this honest and transformative episode of Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast, w/Dragonfly, she explores the subtle yet big ways we lie to ourselves—and why. Through the wisdom of somatic awareness, you’ll learn to recognize emotional and physical signs of self-deception and discover gentle practices to reconnect with your truth. If you’re ready to deepen your self-honesty and open the door to authentic connection, healing, and freedom, this episode is your gentle guide back home to yourself. Links: PureOrgasmicLove.com (partner(s)/couples) DragonflySomaticWellness.com (women only) Hearts & Hips Platform membership (women only) Goddess Retreats Sliquid  Follow me on: Instagram  Non-monogamous? Join: SDC #040 – The Consequences of Awareness https://blubrry.com/pureorgasmiclove/145882274/040-the-consequences-of-awareness/ https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=102094 Dragonfly Thu, 29 May 2025 17:34:47 -0400 0:20:05 false Dragonfly In this episode of Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast with Dragonfly, she explores how self-awareness—or the lack of it—shapes your emotional landscape, relationships, and joy. Through the lens of somatic wisdom, learn to decode the subtle messages of your body, In this episode of Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast with Dragonfly, she explores how self-awareness—or the lack of it—shapes your emotional landscape, relationships, and joy. Through the lens of somatic wisdom, learn to decode the subtle messages of your body, embrace emotions with compassion, and transform disconnection into clarity and connection. If you’ve ever felt emotionally overwhelmed or stuck in relational patterns, this episode offers a gentle yet powerful invitation to tune in and live more consciously. Your body has something to say—are you listening? Links: PureOrgasmicLove.com (partner(s)/couples) DragonflySomaticWellness.com (AFAB only) Hearts & Hips Platform membership (AFAB only) Goddess Retreats Sliquid  Follow me on: Instagram  Non-monogamous? Join: SDC #039 Reclaiming Connection: Stepping Away from the Screen and into Life https://blubrry.com/pureorgasmiclove/135631696/039-reclaiming-connection-stepping-away-from-the-screen-and-into-life/ https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=101557 Dragonfly Wed, 04 Sep 2024 20:00:00 -0400 0:13:14 false Dragonfly In a world where technology evolves at lightning speed, it’s easy to find ourselves more connected to devices than to our own bodies. Today, we’re diving deep into what it means to truly be present—not just with others, but with yourself. In a world where technology evolves at lightning speed, it’s easy to find ourselves more connected to devices than to our own bodies. Today, we’re diving deep into what it means to truly be present—not just with others, but with yourself. Despite the world’s increasing connectivity, many of us feel more disconnected than ever, struggling with feelings of loneliness, anxiety, and even depression. But what if the key to rekindling our authentic connections lies in something as simple as putting down our phones and tuning into the moment? Join Dragonfly as she explores how our over-reliance on technology might be affecting our relationships and how embracing the beauty of being in your body can bring you back to what really matters—those real, meaningful connections with yourself and those around you. It’s time to step away from the screen and step into the richness of life. Are you ready to reconnect? Let’s get started. Show Links: Connected Goddess Gateway: pureorgasmiclove.com/gateways Sliquid Website: PureOrgasmicLove.com Spotify Playlist: Listen Here (@pureorgasmiclove) Follow me on: SDC & Instagram  #038  Unlocking Pleasure: Understanding the Influences on Your Erotic Fulfillment https://blubrry.com/pureorgasmiclove/135233863/038-unlocking-pleasure-understanding-the-influences-on-your-erotic-fulfillment/ https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=101538 Dragonfly Wed, 21 Aug 2024 20:00:00 -0400 0:18:58 false Dragonfly Today, we're diving into a topic that holds the power to transform our lives—pleasure. What is your relationship with it? For many, unlocking pleasure, especially erotic pleasure, can be elusive or complicated, Today, we're diving into a topic that holds the power to transform our lives—pleasure. What is your relationship with it? For many, unlocking pleasure, especially erotic pleasure, can be elusive or complicated, influenced by a myriad of factors we might not even be aware of. From cultural norms and societal taboos to personal traumas and body image issues, so many things can impact our ability to fully experience and enjoy pleasure. In this episode, join Dragonfly to break down some of the most common influences that may be limiting your pleasure and how to recognize them in your own life. Together, we’ll explore the importance of healthy communication, self-love, and somatic awareness as tools to unlock a deeper, more fulfilling connection with your body and your desires. Whether you’re seeking to enhance your current experiences or simply understand your relationship with pleasure better, this episode is for you. So, take a moment, breathe, and join Dragonfly on a journey towards greater pleasure and self-discovery. #037 Small Moments Enhancing Your Life & Arousal https://blubrry.com/pureorgasmiclove/135226792/037-small-moments-enhancing-your-life-arousal/ https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=101527 Dragonfly Wed, 07 Aug 2024 14:24:15 -0400 0:11:03 false Dragonfly In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of daily life, from bustling events like Naughty N'awlins to the everyday tasks that keep the wheels of life turning. But what if the key to balance and joy lies in the small mome... In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of daily life, from bustling events like Naughty N'awlins to the everyday tasks that keep the wheels of life turning. But what if the key to balance and joy lies in the small moments? In this episode, I reflect on the power of those seemingly insignificant pauses that can make a world of difference. Whether it's a soothing cup of herbal tea amidst unpacked boxes or a gentle caress from a loved one, these little things add up, creating a foundation of calm, connection, and even arousal. Join me as I explore how embracing these tiny moments can transform our lives, keeping us grounded and more in tune with ourselves and our relationships. Ready to dive in? Let's take a breath, pause, and find the magic in the little moments together. FREE PDF to support you and the little moments. 10 Simple Ideas to Support Your Relationship with Little Moments #036 Embracing You in the Clock’s Tick https://pureorgasmiclove.com/036-embracing-you-in-the-clocks-tick/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=036-embracing-you-in-the-clocks-tick https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=101387 Dragonfly Wed, 12 Jun 2024 16:35:04 -0400 0:08:37 false Dragonfly Join Dragonfly in this episode, discussing you, time, and knowing your place within it.  Feeling depleted and maxed out? Time is a thing, Join Dragonfly in this episode, discussing you, time, and knowing your place within it.  Feeling depleted and maxed out? Time is a thing, and your calendar is important. Do you know what your relationship with that tick-tock is?  #035 Mastur8ation Normal? https://pureorgasmiclove.com/035-mastur8ation-normal/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=035-mastur8ation-normal https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=101377 Dragonfly Fri, 31 May 2024 20:00:00 -0400 0:19:40 false Dragonfly Join Dragonfly in this month of May for Masturbation Awareness.  She reviews 3 “is this normal” Qs about this erotic act and will enlighten you on some benefits that may make you experience this more for yourself! Join Dragonfly in this month of May for Masturbation Awareness.  She reviews 3 “is this normal” Qs about this erotic act and will enlighten you on some benefits that may make you experience this more for yourself! #034 Human Primate Model: Health Lessons from the Zoo with E 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/034-human-primate-model-health-lessons-from-the-zoo-with-e/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=034-human-primate-model-health-lessons-from-the-zoo-with-e https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=100829 Dragonfly Tue, 09 Apr 2024 13:03:03 -0400 In this eye-opening episode, we sit down with E to unravel the unconventional wisdom behind our distinct health perspectives and the Human Primate Model.

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]]> 0:58:21 false Dragonfly #020 - Relationship Design 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Podcast-Episode-020-300x300.png #033 Words of Self-Talk. Important? 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/033-words-of-self-talk-important/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=033-words-of-self-talk-important https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=100143 Dragonfly Thu, 21 Mar 2024 17:12:55 -0400 Join Dragonfly on a journey of unraveling the profound impact of self-talk on your authentic self, your relationships, and the pleasure you desire.

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]]> 0:20:46 false Dragonfly #020 - Relationship Design 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Podcast-Episode-020-300x300.png #032 Got the Juice w/my Super Women 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/032-got-the-juice-w-my-super-women/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=032-got-the-juice-w-my-super-women https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=99764 Dragonfly Fri, 08 Mar 2024 20:02:56 -0500 Talking about losing yourself in the tornados of life and learning some of the juice that goes into being a superwoman while leading with self-love.

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]]> 0:20:56 false Dragonfly #020 - Relationship Design 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Podcast-Episode-020-300x300.png #031 Somatically Loving in the 5 Love Languages 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/031-somatically-loving-in-the-5-love-languages/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=031-somatically-loving-in-the-5-love-languages https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=99762 Dragonfly Thu, 29 Feb 2024 17:59:43 -0500 0:20:40 false Dragonfly Have you heard of the 5 Love Languages? Chances are, you just may have. So, what would happen if you added a somatic spin to your love language? Have you heard of the 5 Love Languages? Chances are, you just may have. So, what would happen if you added a somatic spin to your love language? #020 - Relationship Design 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Podcast-Episode-020-300x300.png #030 Tiny Steps, Big Impact: Embracing the Power of Moments 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/030-tiny-steps-big-impact/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=030-tiny-steps-big-impact https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=94048 Dragonfly Wed, 06 Sep 2023 17:48:39 -0400 0:20:54 false Dragonfly Life is hard. Everyone I know, at one time or another, can utter these 3 little words that can sometimes feel like an avalanche. Life is hard. And my three-word reply is... Yes-It-Is, but tiny steps can have a big impact.   Life is hard. Everyone I know, at one time or another, can utter these 3 little words that can sometimes feel like an avalanche. Life is hard. And my three-word reply is... Yes-It-Is, but tiny steps can have a big impact.   On today's episode of Pure Orgasmic Podcast, I invite you to join me as I delve into the depths of navigating life's challenges and the nuances of grief. I will share some of my current “Life Is Hard” moments and unveil a resilient approach to walk through the tough times and finding solace.  Tune in to discover the insightful tips and strategies for embracing your own "Life Is Hard" moments and empowering yourself with self-care and support.    Website: PureOrgasmicLove.com  Follow me on: SDC & Instagram  Spotify Playlist: Listen Here    #020 - Relationship Design 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Podcast-Episode-020-300x300.png #029 Consensual Touch – You’re missing the importance of consent! 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/029-consensual-touch-youre-missing-the-importance-of-consent/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=029-consensual-touch-youre-missing-the-importance-of-consent https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=91999 Dragonfly Wed, 14 Jun 2023 21:53:36 -0400 0:40:36 true Dragonfly On today's episode of Pure Orgasmic Podcast, Dragonfly talks about Consensual Touch.  Why are we asking first, when should we be asking, along with tips on where to use consent for some extra pleasure. As well as a personal story of when Dragonfly woul... On today's episode of Pure Orgasmic Podcast, Dragonfly talks about Consensual Touch.  Why are we asking first, when should we be asking, along with tips on where to use consent for some extra pleasure. As well as a personal story of when Dragonfly would have very much appreciated a consensual ask, first. And E joins in to celebrate what consent has done for him and how he specifically uses it to enhance their sexy time! #020 - Relationship Design 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Podcast-Episode-020-300x300.png #028 Mindful Masturbation 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/028-mindful-masturbation/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=028-mindful-masturbation https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=91994 Dragonfly Wed, 24 May 2023 21:50:51 -0400 0:38:54 true Dragonfly On today's episode of Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast, Dragonfly will introduce you to an option you may not be aware is out there in the world to enhance your Masturbation, explain what she experienced the first time she engaged in it, On today's episode of Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast, Dragonfly will introduce you to an option you may not be aware is out there in the world to enhance your Masturbation, explain what she experienced the first time she engaged in it, and give you a new way to express pleasure for yourself to enhance every moment of your self-sex going forward!  #020 - Relationship Design 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Podcast-Episode-020-300x300.png #027 Masturbation Mindset: Shifting Your Flow for More Pleasure 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/027-masturbation-mindset-shifting-your-flow-for-more-pleasure/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=027-masturbation-mindset-shifting-your-flow-for-more-pleasure https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=91990 Dragonfly Wed, 10 May 2023 21:47:10 -0400 0:37:07 true Dragonfly Every May, I hear some of the same to similar things being talked about. The how-to and the benefits primarily. These are very valuable. It's part of the pleasure package we all desire to have in our lives.  But what if getting there? Every May, I hear some of the same to similar things being talked about. The how-to and the benefits primarily. These are very valuable. It's part of the pleasure package we all desire to have in our lives.  But what if getting there? The action of doing it, you are having a hard time? Or the doing just seems regular and habitual.  Today I will add to your pleasure toolbox by sharing some of my erotic self-pleasure info that expands you with a shift in mindset and actions.  Listen in on some of the tools I use to enhance my erotic self-pleasure and the conversation that was had by E and I that has led to us both doing it more! All of this to help celebrate and support more pleasure for you this Masturbation May! #020 - Relationship Design 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Podcast-Episode-020-300x300.png #026 Intention Behind Touching Each Other 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/026-intention-behind-touching-each-other/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=026-intention-behind-touching-each-other https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=91986 Dragonfly Wed, 29 Mar 2023 21:44:58 -0400 0:22:11 true Dragonfly #020 - Relationship Design 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Podcast-Episode-020-300x300.png #025 Just Breathe…Intentionally 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/025-just-breatheintentionally/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=025-just-breatheintentionally https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=91982 Dragonfly Thu, 16 Mar 2023 21:41:37 -0400 0:25:22 false Dragonfly #020 - Relationship Design 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Podcast-Episode-020-300x300.png #025: Just Breathe…Intentionally https://pureorgasmiclove.com/024-just-breatheintentionally/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=024-just-breatheintentionally https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=92441 Dragonfly Thu, 16 Mar 2023 15:33:47 -0400 Join Dragonfly and E talking about Breath. Intentional Breath that is.  Learn what this looks like in Dragonfly and E’s life and its role in the greater animal kingdom. You may just leave this episode understanding where you could use this intentional breathing in your life and engage in a guided short practice with Dragonfly […]

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]]> 0:30:51 true Dragonfly Join Dragonfly and E talking about Breath. Intentional Breath that is.  Learn what this looks like in Dragonfly and E’s life and its role in the greater animal kingdom. You may just leave this episode understanding where you could use this intentio... Join Dragonfly and E talking about Breath. Intentional Breath that is.  Learn what this looks like in Dragonfly and E’s life and its role in the greater animal kingdom. You may just leave this episode understanding where you could use this intentional breathing in your life and engage in a guided short practice with Dragonfly to do daily, any time of day!  Show Links: Sliquid – Use Code DRAGONFLY for 10% off Website: PureOrgasmicLove.com Follow me on: SDC & Instagram  Spotify Playlist: Listen Here (@pureorgasmiclove) #025: Just Breathe…Intentionally https://pureorgasmiclove.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Podcast-Logo-2020-Hi-Rez-min.jpg #024 – Actionable Love 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/024-actionable-love/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=024-actionable-love https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=91978 Dragonfly Thu, 16 Feb 2023 21:37:26 -0500 0:39:19 true Dragonfly #020 - Relationship Design 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Podcast-Episode-020-300x300.png #023 Non-Sexual Sensations 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/023-non-sexual-sensations/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=023-non-sexual-sensations https://pureorgasmiclove.com/?p=91972 Dragonfly Wed, 08 Feb 2023 21:30:15 -0500 0:33:59 true Dragonfly #020 - Relationship Design 20 https://pureorgasmiclove.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Podcast-Episode-020-300x300.png