Fierce Marriage

The Plague of a Cruel Husband or Wife (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 9/10)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 14 Jul 2026 05:00:00 -0400

How can a wife or husband respond when their spouse treats them with cruelty?

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Plague of Financial Hardship (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 8/10)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 07 Jul 2026 05:00:00 -0400

Financial hardship wreaks havoc on marriages. How can we approach seasons of under-earning without losing the health of marriage in the process?

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Plague of Mettlesome In-Laws (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 7/10)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 30 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400

Does honoring your parents mean staying quiet when in-laws cross the line? Today, we break down why that's a dangerous misunderstanding, using a real listener's story about a mother-in-law who won't stop attacking her daughter-in-law behind closed doors.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Plague of a Passive Husband (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 6/10)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 23 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400

Today, we tackle one of the most common and quietly devastating marriage struggles: the passive husband. We unpack why so many men confuse peacekeeping with peacemaking and the practical habits that can pull a marriage back from the edge before it's too late.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Unequally Yoked Marriage (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 5/10)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 16 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

When a Husband Doesn’t Lead Spiritually (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 4/10)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 09 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Plague of a Sexless Marriage (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 3/10)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 02 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400

Today we respond to a letter from a man named Dave who has been rejected by his wife for nearly a decade. If you or someone you know is quietly suffering through a marriage that's struggling in this way, this episode will give you the biblical clarity and direction you've been looking for.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Biblical Framework That Fixes Communication QUICK

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 26 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400

What if the biggest problem in your marriage isn't your conflict — it's how you're speaking into it? Today we dive into a concept that may reframe the way you think about communication: your words are covenantal envoys, carrying cargo between two souls trying to share the same reality.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Wholehearted YES! How Wives Can Joyfully Submit to Their Husbands

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 19 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400

Today we unpack the idea of the "wholehearted yes": what Scripture says about a wife's God-designed posture of responding and receiving, why wives are always communicating something whether they use words or not, and how the gutsy, faith-fueled story of Abigail — a woman who stopped a bloodbath without losing her composure — gives us one of the most powerful pictures of godly restraint in all of Scripture.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Adultery, Betrayal, and S*xual Sin (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 2/10)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 12 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400

Infidelity is the one of the most common plagues destroying Christian marriages today, and many people never see it coming. Today we unpack how to protect your marriage from it (or heal from it) according to the Bible.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

An Honest Look at Ongoing P*rn Use (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 1/10)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 05 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400

Pornography is the number one plague silently destroying Christian marriages today — and most wives never see it coming. Today we tackle the most asked-about topic from over 1,300 listener submissions: what do you do when your husband's secret is finally exposed?

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

When Working Harder Doesn't Work: Becoming a Truly Fruitful Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 21 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0400

Many Christians try to fix their marriage by "working harder" on their behavior, but as we discuss in this episode, that’s like stapling fruit to a dead tree. If you find yourself lacking patience, kindness, or self-control, the problem isn't your effort—it’s your root. We dive deep into the Greek definitions of the Fruit of the Spirit, the "tailpipe" diagnostic for your home, and the reality of what it means to truly be a regenerate believer. This breakdown offers the biblical roadmap to moving from fleshly "rotten fruit" to a life truly indwelled by the Spirit.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

If Bearing Fruit in Your Marriage Feels Forced, You Need to Hear This

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Thu, 16 Apr 2026 09:49:55 -0400

Is your marriage bearing genuine spiritual fruit, or are you simply stapling "good behavior" onto a dying tree? Today we dive deep into the "engine" of a Christian union. We explore the critical difference between moralizing—trying to force change through sheer will—and living a life truly indwelled by the Holy Spirit.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

10 Questions to Diagnose the Spiritual Health of Your Marriage (Part 1)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Fri, 03 Apr 2026 15:54:13 -0400

Today we break down the spiritual reality of the "One Flesh" union and provide 10 diagnostic questions to determine if your marriage is actually flourishing or just surviving.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

I Love You But I'm Not IN Love with You...? Understanding Love

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 24 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400

Is it possible to fall out of love? Today we talk about the nature of love and the common lie that you can "Love someone but not BE in love with them."

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What to Do When a Husband Won't Lead Spiritually?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 17 Mar 2026 14:46:23 -0400

Today we dive deep into the heavy reality of wives who are carrying the spiritual load alone. We break down the biblical definition of headship—Prophet, Priest, and King—and explain how a wife can win her husband "without a word" through a gentle and quiet spirit, while also giving a direct, sobering call to men to repent and embrace Godly leadership.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What if a Wife Struggles to Submit?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 10 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400

Modern culture has branded "submission" as an outdated, oppressive concept, but the Bible describes it as the very fertilizer that allows a marriage to thrive. Today, we dive deep into the real reasons wives struggle to submit, the danger of the "jellyfish husband," and the importance of sacrificial leadership.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What if a Husband Is Addicted to WORK?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 03 Mar 2026 18:30:46 -0500

Many Christian men believe they are honoring God by working themselves to the bone, but could their hard work actually be sinful? Today we examine the biblical theology of work, from the Garden of Eden to the command of the Sabbath, to see where modern husbands are missing the mark.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

7 Tactics the Devil Uses to DESTROY Your Marriage (Part 2)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 24 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0500

In this part 2 of 2, we expose the spiritual battle currently raging for your home and the specific strategies the enemy uses to tear husbands and wives apart. We break down how subtle shifts in your priorities allow the devil to gain a foothold.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

7 Tactics the Devil Uses to DESTROY Your Marriage (Part 1)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 17 Feb 2026 12:46:00 -0500

In this part 1 of 2, we expose the spiritual battle currently raging for your home and the specific strategies the enemy uses to tear husbands and wives apart. We break down how subtle shifts in your priorities allow the devil to gain a foothold.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Single Biggest Predictor of Divorce and How to Avoid It in Your Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 10 Feb 2026 14:55:21 -0500

Today, we expose the single biggest predictor of divorce: Contempt. We dive into the psychology of the four horsemen and the theology of Matthew 18 to show you how self-righteousness and entitlement rot marriages from the inside out.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

How Modern “Dating” Culture Destroys Christian Marriages

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 27 Jan 2026 08:51:23 -0500

Is modern dating unbiblical? Today we expose the worldly origins of casual dating and hookup culture, and why these modern constructs are actively destroying Christian marriages before they even begin. We break down the lost biblical art of courtship and the weight of the marriage covenant.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

9 Ways Husbands Forsake Their Wives

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 20 Jan 2026 10:45:37 -0500

Today, we uncover 9 common ways husbands functionally forsake their wives—often without even realizing it. From spiritual laziness and poor communication to the subtle ways we let intimacy die, this is an important reminder for every Christian husband.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

When a Wife Struggles to Honor Her Husband

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 13 Jan 2026 10:02:15 -0500

In a world that normalizes wives only respecting their husbands when they "earn" it, many Christian marriages are falling into a trap. Today we dive into the needed truths of Ephesians 5 and identify nine common ways that wives dishonor their husbands.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

10 Horrible Tips for Marital Arguments

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 07 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0500

Communication is the single biggest downfall in marriages—bigger than finances, chores, and even sex. Today, we are taking an inverse approach by giving you 10 "horrible" tips guaranteed to ruin your relationship and kill intimacy.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

How to Create a Biblical Vision Statement for Your Family in 2026

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 30 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Christians, please don’t enter the New Year without doing this… Today we discuss the startling statistic that 94% of families lack a written vision statement and share the three-part framework for creating a biblical family vision.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Struggling With Discontentment in Your Marriage? A Biblical Response

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 23 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Today we explore the theology of contentment, challenging believers to stop calling their sin a "personality trait" and start fighting for the peace that only comes from a life fully surrendered to God’s sovereignty.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

How to Have a GOOD Sex Life (According to the Bible)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 16 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Is your perspective on sex hurting your marriage? In this episode, Ryan and Selena tackle the often misunderstood topic of intimacy in the Christian life. We break down the 5 biblical keys to a healthy perspective on sex.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The 3 P's that Will Poison Your Marriage (Revisited)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 09 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Marriage is God’s gift for joy and sanctification — but three subtle poisons can kill it: Pennies, Perversion, and Pride.

Pennies – Loving money breeds fear, comparison, and discontent. Antidote: Seek first God’s kingdom (Matt 6:25–34).
Perversion – Porn, withholding, or distortion twist God’s good gift of sex. Antidote: Pursue regular, healing intimacy as worship (1 Cor 7:5).
Pride – “I know better” fuels unforgiveness and division. Antidote: Look to the humble Servant-King and forgive as Christ forgave us (Matt 20:28, Eph 4:32).

Spot the poison, repent fast, and watch God restore joy to your covenant. Short, scriptural, and straight to the heart — hit play with your spouse.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Mocking Wives? When a Wife Struggles to Respect Her Husband: A Biblical Response

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 02 Dec 2025 04:24:00 -0500

In this raw and urgent episode, Ryan and Selena respond directly to a viral clip from Dr. Emerson Eggerichs (Love & Respect) where he calls out wives who “continually mock their husbands,” put them down mentally, and secretly make fun of their opinions.

If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “He’s just not the man I thought I married” … this episode is for you.

We dive deep into:

The devastating long-term fruit of a disrespectful speech and a critical spirit (Prov 21:19, Prov 27:15)
Why even “small” condescending comments, eye-rolls, and corrections are spiritual poison
Genesis 1–2 and Ephesians 5:22–33 – God’s original design for husbands to WORK and wives to RESPECT
The moment a wife stops seeing her husband “in his element,” her view of him becomes dangerously incomplete
The 4 C’s every wife must confront: What are you Consuming? Who are you Consulting? Who are you Complaining to? It’s time to CUT it out.
The 200-year plan: How today’s sarcasm and discontent become tomorrow’s bitterness, affairs, or divorce
Practical steps to break the cycle: Repent to God → Repent to your husband → Replace criticism with gratitude → Renew your mind daily (Romans 12:2)

Husbands: this isn’t permission to be passive. A wife’s biblical respect flows most naturally when her husband loves her as Christ loves the church. We talk about that too.

Whether you’re the wife struggling with disrespect or the husband feeling crushed under constant criticism—this episode will challenge and encourage you toward the fierce, gospel-centered marriage you both long for.

Scriptures covered: Genesis 1–2, Ephesians 5:22–33, Proverbs 21:19, Proverbs 27:15–16, Romans 12:1–2

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Are S*x and Intimacy Challenges Helpful? Maybe

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 18 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -0500

God designed marital closeness not only for physical connection but also to nurture emotional and spiritual unity. When husbands and wives pursue intimacy regularly, they often experience a deeper sense of being loved, fulfilled, adored, and valued by their spouse. Join us as we explore how Christ-centered surrender and Christ-honoring intimacy can transform both our inner lives and our marriages.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The 15-Second Kiss Experiment Revisited

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 12 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -0500

What keeps a marriage thriving through the highs and lows of life? In this episode we discuss some wisdom given to us by another couple who have been walking hand in hand for decades — and they shared something powerful. You’ll hear about a simple, practical “experiment” designed to help diffuse tension, deepen connection, and invite God’s peace into your relationship. The answer may surprise you! Tune in to discover how you can start your own marriage experiment today and watch love grow in new ways.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Covenant Over Comfort: The Cosmic Purpose of Marriage Part 2

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 04 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -0500

Listen as we uncover God’s mission for marriage — to raise children who walk in the Lord and to reflect His love through our covenant relationships. Husbands are called to love their wives, and wives to submit to their husbands, walking in unity to bear lasting fruit. Though the enemy seeks to destroy the sanctity of marriage, godly couples stand as living proof of God’s perfect design — to be fruitful, multiply, and subdue the earth for His glory.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Covenant Over Comfort: The Cosmic Purpose of Marriage (Part 1)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Thu, 30 Oct 2025 04:00:00 -0400

Marriage isn’t just a contract — it’s a covenant before God. Join us as we dive deep into the sacred reality that when a marriage ends, it’s more than the loss of a relationship — it’s the death of a family, the breaking of a divine promise. Because when we understand what and who we’re fighting for, we can stand firm in the promise that what God has joined together, no one can separate.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The One Habit That Will Change Your Marriage Quickly and Forever

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 14 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -0400

A Christ-centered home is built through daily habits of worship and trust. Family worship is how we honor God together—not perfectly, but faithfully.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What Women Really Need in Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 07 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -0400

Join us as we explore God’s design for men and women in marriage. When men step into their God-given calling—leading with love, humility, and strength—it creates an environment where women can feel safe, secure, honored, and deeply loved. This frees wives to fully embrace who God has called them to be. Together, we’ll unpack what it looks like for husbands to walk in their role and how that opens the door for wives to flourish in theirs, leading to stronger, Christ-centered marriages.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The World Needs Spartan Wives

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 30 Sep 2025 10:37:00 -0400

In this episode, we explore what it means for wives to stand guard over their marriages by guarding their hearts, staying rooted in God’s Word, and committing to prayer. We’ll discuss how a wife’s words and actions reflect the strength of her marriage and offer encouragement to remain steadfast in faith as she nurtures her home and relationship.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The World Needs Fierce Men

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 16 Sep 2025 06:00:00 -0400

What does it truly mean to be a godly man in today’s world? In this podcast, we dig into Scripture and real-life application to uncover God’s design for men as leaders, servants, and disciples. From the church pew to the dinner table, from the workplace to the neighborhood, men are called to live with courage, humility, and integrity.

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Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

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This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

How to Thrive in Marriage During Season of Change

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 02 Sep 2025 06:00:00 -0400

Change is a natural part of marriage—whether it’s a new job, a move, children, loss, or simply entering a new season of life. These moments can stretch and shape us, but they’re also opportunities to lean into God’s plan for your marriage. In this episode, we’ll share how to be intentional in times of transition, inviting God into the process so you and your spouse can stay grounded in faith, grow in love, and not just endure change—but truly thrive together.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

When is the Right Time to Have Kids or Stop Having Kids?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 26 Aug 2025 06:00:00 -0400

Maybe you're dreaming about what your family could look like one day, or maybe you've already begun the journey. But how do you know when your family is truly complete? Join us as we explore how to seek and trust God's plan for your family.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Dealing with Anger and Abuse Biblically in Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 19 Aug 2025 06:00:00 -0400

Abuse is never minimized in God’s Word—it’s a violation of His law. In this episode, we tackle the heavy but necessary topic of anger and abuse in marriage. What does the Bible say about it? How should Christians respond? And what steps can be taken toward safety, repentance, and true reconciliation?

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Awesome Saving Strategies for Future and Fun

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 13 Aug 2025 17:49:52 -0400

Ever feel overwhelmed by the idea of saving and investing? You’re not alone! In this episode, we share the heart behind being a good steward of your finances and give you practical steps to move forward. We hope you’ll join us!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Common Arguments Couples Have Around Money

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 30 Jul 2025 06:00:00 -0400

How we handle money reflects how we trust God. In this rare episode, we dig into why Jesus talked about money so much — and what it means for your marriage.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Should a Wife Expect Her Husband to Do Household Chores?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 23 Jul 2025 06:00:00 -0400

A listener recently wrote in with a question that piqued our interest—and got Selena a little fired up. Should a husband be expected to help around the house? Tune in to hear our take!

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To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The 'Man Pout' — What Is It, and How to Cure It?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 08 Jul 2025 06:00:00 -0400

We’ve all had those moments where someone shuts down instead of speaking up. In this episode, we’re decoding the 'Man Pout' — with compassion, clarity, and the tools to overcome it.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Unstoppable Power of a Grace Filled Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 02 Jul 2025 06:00:00 -0400

Marriage is the union of two imperfect people, held together by grace. Today, we reflect on the grace we’ve received—and the grace we’re called to extend in love and forgiveness.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Will These "Magic Questions" Help Your Marriage? (Part 2 of 2)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 24 Jun 2025 06:00:00 -0400

Think you know your partner? These final questions just might surprise you. Whether you're dating, engaged, or married for years, these questions will reignite connection, reveal new stories, and keep the conversation flowing.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Will These "Magic Questions" Help Your Marriage? (Part 1 of 2)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 17 Jun 2025 06:00:00 -0400

Feeling the need to reconnect with your spouse? Or get to know a potential spouse better? Tune into this episode where we dive into 28 thoughtful questions designed to spark deeper conversations, strengthen your bond, and bring a few good laughs along the way.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

3 Sure Signs of a Healthy Couple

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 03 Jun 2025 06:00:00 -0400

We identified three telltale signs that indicate your marriage is thriving. Do you and your spouse hit all three? Whether your relationship is strong or struggling, we’d be honored to have you join us. There’s hope, encouragement, and truth waiting for you here.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

True Friends will Advocate for Your Marriage and Not Just for You

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 28 May 2025 06:00:00 -0400

Every marriage faces highs and lows—but who’s in your corner during those tough times matters. True friends won’t just take your side; they’ll fight for your marriage. They’ll speak life over both you and your spouse, helping you build bridges—not burn them. Choose friends who point you back to unity, not division.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What if My Husband Has a Low Sex Drive?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 20 May 2025 06:00:00 -0400

It’s a tough question—and sex can be a hard topic to talk about. But we’re here to approach it with honesty, grace, and a godly perspective.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Women, Wives, and Friendship

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 13 May 2025 06:00:00 -0400

Today, Selena’s in the hot seat, and we’re diving deep into friendship! We’re unpacking what God’s Word says about sisterhood, connection, and the beauty of women doing life together. Our hope? That you feel encouraged to pursue meaningful, Christ-centered friendships that glorify God and bring you joy.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Preparing for Marriage and Not Just the Wedding

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 07 May 2025 06:00:00 -0400

You’re getting married—the colors are chosen, the venue is booked, and the cake has been taste-tested. But what about the marriage after the wedding day is over? Let’s talk about it.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Seven MYTHS About Marriage You Shouldn't Believe

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 22 Apr 2025 06:00:00 -0400

The world is full of false beliefs about marriage—and if we’re not careful, they can quietly shape how we see our own. Are you falling for any of these myths? Watch to find out.

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Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

7 Things to Say to Each Other DAILY

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 15 Apr 2025 06:00:00 -0400

A strong marriage is built on strong communication—and we believe there are 7 key phrases every couple should say daily. How many do you and your spouse already use—and which ones are you missing? Tune in to find out!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

FACTS vs. FEELINGS in Marital Arguments

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 08 Apr 2025 13:44:21 -0400

"Facts don't care about your feelings." Or do they? In this episode we'll discuss why facts, feelings, AND trust all matter for productive dialogue (and arguments) in marriage.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

BOUNDARIES: Dealing with Toxic In-Laws

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 01 Apr 2025 06:00:00 -0400

Boundaries are meant to establish healthy order in relationships, not create isolation. But what does it look like when you need to set boundaries between your marriage and your in-laws? What justifies them, and what’s the ultimate goal in having these boundaries? We pray this episode is helpful for you!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Advice for Improving a Difficult Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 25 Mar 2025 13:56:00 -0400

Has your marriage ever been in a rut? Or maybe you're currently in one and have no idea how you'll make it through. We hope to shine some light on wherever you're at today and remind you to never give up—it’s worth the effort to make it to the other side.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Power of an Admiring Wife

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 18 Mar 2025 15:08:15 -0400

There's no way around it—a wife has power over her husband's heart. She decides whether to use that power for good or evil. We pray she chooses the former and watches her husband flourish. Tune in to discover all the ways an admiring wife can uplift her husband.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Responding to the Gottman's 4 Horsemen of the Relationship Apocalypse

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 11 Mar 2025 06:00:00 -0400

The Gottman Institute identified "The 4 Horseman of the Apocolypse", which can supposedly predict the end of a relationship. We shed some biblical light on these ideas as well as some helpful antidotes. We pray it blesses you!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Fighting Well and Learning Resiliency

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 04 Mar 2025 06:00:00 -0500

We all have moments of disagreement within our marriage, but what happens when you can feel the bitterness linger even after the argument has been said and done? We want to share some tips on how to fight better, faster, and build resiliency along the way.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

12 Tactics of the Devil to Destroy Your Marriage (Part 2 of 2)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 18 Feb 2025 06:00:00 -0500

In Part 1, we explored the subtle yet powerful ways the enemy works against marriages in today's culture. In this final part, we dive deeper into the remaining tactics and, more importantly, how to guard against them. Join us for this insightful discussion on strengthening your marriage and family.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

12 Tactics of the Devil to Destroy Your Marriage (Part 1 of 2)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 11 Feb 2025 17:11:14 -0500

Ryan posed a question to ChatGPT and said, "Imagine you were the devil, how would you strategically go about destroying the family unit?" The response was eerily similar to what we’re witnessing in today’s culture. Don’t miss this eye-opening discussion—stay tuned to equip yourself in the good fight for your marriage and family.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

3 Ways to Keep a Clean House

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 28 Jan 2025 06:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we're not talking about doing dishes (although that may fit in somewhere), we're walking you through 3 ways to keep a healthy, thriving marriage. You won't want to miss this!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Are You in a Truly Christian Marriage?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 21 Jan 2025 06:00:00 -0500

Are you living out a gospel-centered marriage? In this video, we explore a common theme we've noticed in some marriages that proclaim to be Christian. Do they truly reflect Christ's life, death, and resurrection? Join us to find out!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

How to Pray Together in Marriage (even when it's awkward)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 14 Jan 2025 18:10:05 -0500

As believers, we’re called to cultivate an active prayer life, but what about a marital prayer life? While private prayer is essential, praying together as a couple can strengthen your relationship in profound ways. In this video, we share the benefits we've experienced in our own marriage and practical ways you can incorporate prayer into your relationship.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Big Announcement!

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Fri, 03 Jan 2025 14:00:31 -0500

Join our January Online Marriage Cohort! Launches January 6th.

Learn more and sign up for Gospel-Centered Marriage: https://fiercemarriage.com/gcm

Gospel-Centered Marriage is our most comprehensive marriage curriculum, experienced by thousands of couples worldwide.

The January Cohort includes:

• Access to launch and debrief Zoom calls with Ryan and Selena (2 calls)

• Two (2) copies of our Gospel-Centered Marriage Participant's Workbook (ships immediately)

• Instant access to the online course materials

• 6 sessions with 14+ videos totaling 164 minutes of instruction

• Instant PDF access to the participant's guide so you can begin while you await your books' arrival!

• Additional resources and videos

Some spend $1,000s on marriage retreats! We've made our curriculum more affordable than ever.

We hope to meet you!

What if I'm in a Sexless Marriage?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 17 Dec 2024 06:00:00 -0500

We're talking about the elephant in the bedroom... What kind of frequency should you have with your spouse in the bedroom??

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Why You NEED to Join a Good Church for the Good of Your Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 03 Dec 2024 06:00:00 -0500

It's rare to hear about a couple in perpetual dysfunction who also regularly attends a faithful, solid church. What do we mean by this statement? Tune in to find out.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

GRATITUDE Changes Everything About Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 26 Nov 2024 06:00:00 -0500

It's prescribed to us this time of year to remember all the things in life that we're thankful for, but if we're not careful, it will just become a checked box on our to-do list. During this episode, we reflect on the true depth of how gratitude affects our hearts.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Learning to Love IN-LAWS Better

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 20 Nov 2024 06:00:00 -0500

There's never a bad time to have discussions about handling in-laws, but it feels especially timely heading into the holiday season. Listen in as we give practical steps to loving our in-laws better.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

5 Lessons Learned to Stop Arguing About MONEY

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 12 Nov 2024 06:00:00 -0500

If you know our story, you've heard about how we started our marriage out in college living hand to mouth with our finances. Since then, the Lord has had lots to teach us, and we would love to share it with you! Join us.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

5 Ways to FINALLY Get Unity Around Time and Priorities

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 29 Oct 2024 06:00:00 -0400

As Christians, we are called to prioritize what God prioritizes. How should that statement manifest itself in our daily priorities? It's brought us clarity in our life's big and small decisions, so we hope this episode is helpful for you too!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Lessons Learned about S X in 20ish Years of Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 22 Oct 2024 06:00:00 -0400

God made s*x for our good and His glory, BUT a thriving intimate life with your spouse doesn't happen by accident. It takes good communication, intentionality, effort, and several other lessons we've learned throughout our marriage. Listen in!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

7 Ways to Have Better Conflict In Your Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 15 Oct 2024 06:00:00 -0400

There’s no avoiding it; we all encounter conflict in our marriages. The real question is: how well do you handle it?

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

4 Massive Lessons Learned on Communication

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 08 Oct 2024 06:00:00 -0400

By God's grace, we just celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary, and it got us thinking about the many lessons we have learned together over the years. This week, we're starting off strong with communication and discussing how essential it is to a thriving marriage.

P.S. This is the start of a new series, so stay tuned each week as we go through different aspects of marriage and the lessons we've learned.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Greatest Adultery Repellant Known to Man

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 25 Sep 2024 06:00:00 -0400

We must never assume that we are beyond the grasp of adultery. "Affairs rarely happen out of the blue; they start small and progress subtly over time. Every affair begins in the imagination, takes root in the heart, and slowly turns to action." Tune in to hear how to guard your heart and honor your spouse well.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

20+ Creative Date Ideas to Stay Connected

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 17 Sep 2024 19:42:51 -0400

Different seasons of life can leave you and your spouse feeling more like roommates rather than husband and wife. If you need creative date ideas to spark some fun and intentional engagement with your spouse, this episode is for you!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Why Even Stay Married? What's the Point?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 10 Sep 2024 06:00:00 -0400

Have you ever questioned the value of staying married, or do you know someone who could use some marital encouragement? Join us to be reminded of God's beautiful design for marriage!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Q & A: Rebuilding Trust After It's Been Lost (Trust and Betrayal, 5 of 5)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 03 Sep 2024 17:36:00 -0400

Today, we're wrapping up our series on trust and betrayal! To conclude, we are answering questions from you, our listeners. We pray that it's edifying to you and that it will help your marriage flourish in all areas of trust.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Creating Healthy Boundaries Around Tech in Marriage (Part 2 of 2)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 14 Aug 2024 06:00:00 -0400

We could all benefit from an honest evaluation of whether our tech is serving us for good, or taking over in harmful ways. Our friends Nathan and Anna Sutherland are back for another episode to gently push back on our tech use and provide strategies to reorient our hearts and minds on the right things. We hope you'll join us!

Check out Nathan and Anna's new books at GospelCenteredTech.com

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Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Phones, Video Games, Tech, and How They Affect Your Marriage (w/ Guests Nathan and Anna Sutherland, Part 1 of 2)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 07 Aug 2024 16:20:31 -0400

Technology (phones, video games, shows) can cause marital strife if not handled with wisdom and clarity. Today we have our long-time friends, Nathan and Anna Sutherland as guests to discuss technology and how it impacts marriage. They've recently written books (releasing 8/13) all about the topic.

Check out Nathan and Anna's new books at GospelCenteredTech.com

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Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Maintaining Strong Trust in Marriage (Trust and Betrayal 4 of 5)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 30 Jul 2024 06:00:00 -0400

Our hope for this series is that you and your spouse can learn to mend areas of your marriage that have experienced broken trust. Once you have placed your complete and utter trust in the Lord, and in turn your spouse, we pray that you can KEEP consistent trust in your marriage. That's what this episode is all about. We hope you'll join us!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Repairing Trust After It's Broken (Trust and Betrayal 3 of 5)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 23 Jul 2024 06:00:00 -0400

Thankfully it is possible to repair trust in your marriage, but unfortunately, many couples struggle with where to even begin. We want to equip you with 5 tangible ways you can begin to reinstate assurance in your marriage. We hope it blesses you!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Dealing with Betrayal of Trust (Trust and Betrayal 2 of 5)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 16 Jul 2024 06:00:00 -0400

So you've been betrayed by your spouse. Now what? Join us for part 2 of this vital discussion.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

How They Rebuilt Trust After Betrayal

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 09 Jul 2024 15:52:47 -0400

We promise you'll leave encouraged and inspired after hearing the miraculous way the Lord worked through this couple's marriage and spoiler alert... their divorce. Tune in to hear an incredible redemption story from our friends, the Teagues.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Foundation of Trust in Marriage (Building and Repairing Trust, 1 of 5)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 25 Jun 2024 06:00:00 -0400

Ruth Bell Graham said, "A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers", but what do you do when trust has been broken and it feels hard to forgive? Join us for this 5 part series of building and repairing trust in your marriage.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Don't Be Blindsided by Divorce, Do This Marriage Check Up

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 18 Jun 2024 06:00:00 -0400

Sadly, we see it all too often... one spouse files for divorce and the other never sees it coming. You owe it to your marriage to do this one thing!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Crushing Comparison (Stop Comparing to Others!)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 11 Jun 2024 12:39:26 -0400

There's a reason "do not covet" made it as the tenth commandment. Coveting ultimately leads to death and it's no different when it comes to your own marriage. We hope this episode blesses you.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

10 (Simple) Ways to De-Escalate Arguments and Fights

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 04 Jun 2024 06:00:00 -0400

We believe in reconciling and reconciling fast, but many times our earthly flesh gets in the way of that! Listen in for 10 practical tips on how to handle conflict within your marriage.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What if We're Unequally Yoked?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 28 May 2024 06:00:00 -0400

Are you married to someone who is unequally yoked to you? Or are you considering marriage with someone who might not be a good match in this regard? This episode is for you! It's also a must-watch if you offer guidance to others facing these challenges. We hope this discussion blesses you!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What's the Right Age to Get Married? Should I Marry Young?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 21 May 2024 06:00:00 -0400

Throughout the past few decades, we've seen couples getting married later and later. Why do you think that is? Join us as we unpack this idea and find out if there is a magic age you should get married.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Rule Bender vs Rule Follower?? Honoring Each Others' Differences in Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 14 May 2024 06:00:00 -0400

Differences make a marriage go round. Learn to lean into these differences and honor one another's unique perspectives. Join us for this week's conversation!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Should Your Spouse Really Be Your Friend?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 07 May 2024 12:17:42 -0400

Hot take: Calling your spouse your best friend is a demotion compared to calling them your husband/wife. Tune into this episode to learn how to see friendship rightly in marriage.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Ways to Warm Up a Cold Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 23 Apr 2024 17:12:39 -0400

Everyone wants a vibrant, thriving marriage, but what happens when day-to-day life causes you to feel distant from your spouse? Spoiler alert: vacation is not the lasting solution.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What if I want kids but my spouse doesn't?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 09 Apr 2024 06:00:00 -0400

As a Christian, what is your role when it comes to childbearing? Listen in as Ryan and Selena address a listener's question about this very topic. We hope it blesses you!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Marriage & Money- Tithing, Joint Accounts, and More

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 02 Apr 2024 06:00:00 -0400

Money has a tricky way of grabbing hold of our hearts and it certainly has a way of infiltrating our marriages in an unhealthy way. This episode is all about stewarding our money in a manner worthy of God. Join us!

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The 8 Purposes of Sex

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 19 Mar 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Sex is purposed for more than babies and pleasure. Listen to today's episode where Ryan and Selena explore the other six purposes of sex.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Why Check-Ins Matter and How To Do Them Well

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 12 Mar 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Have you ever asked the simple question, How can I be a better husband/wife? Tragically, few have. And, if that’s you (i.e. you haven’t asked), then there is no time like the present to start! Join Ryan and Selena for a discussion about why intentional marital check-ins are a must for a healthy, strong marriage.

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Help! My Wife Wears Yoga Pants to the Gym and I Hate It

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 27 Feb 2024 14:47:26 -0500

Today we responded to a question from a listener about his wife wearing yoga pants to the gym. Is he right in objecting to it? Listen in to find out! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Follow-Up: Answering Questions About Husbands Initiating Intimacy

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 20 Feb 2024 06:00:00 -0500

We've had several questions from viewers regarding our past two videos... which is good! We are open to dialogue and appreciate the opportunity to further this discussion. Join us as we address certain questions and concerns viewers had about husbands being the primary initiators of intimacy.

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Why Husbands Should Be the Primary Initiators of S-- (Part 2)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 13 Feb 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Above all, men are built to be leaders in the home, so why wouldn't this include initiating intimacy with his wife? Join us as we unpack part 2 of this topic.

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Why Husbands Should Be the Primary Initiators of S-- (Part 1)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 06 Feb 2024 12:55:06 -0500

Who should be the one to initiate sex in marriage? The quick answer is, both of you! But, it is our conviction that the husband should be the primary initiator of intimacy in marriage.

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Learning to Trust Again After Trust Was Lost

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 23 Jan 2024 06:00:00 -0500

What does moving forward in your marriage look like after trust has been lost? In this episode, we're addressing this very question from one of our listeners. Join us as we unpack this question and give you tangible tools to move forward.

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Art of Asking Great Questions (and Why it Changes Everything in Marriage)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 16 Jan 2024 16:28:20 -0500

It seems like a simple task, but the impact of asking thoughtful questions can bring you closer to your spouse and create a good culture of communication in the home.

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Faithful, Fruitful, and Fierce (Session 1 of the Fierce Families Conference)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 09 Jan 2024 16:23:41 -0500

If you were not able to attend our Fierce Families Conference, fear not, we will be posting each session to our YouTube channel! To start us off, tune in to hear Ryan's session on being faithful, fruitful, and fierce.

Conference sessions: https://fiercefamilies.com/2023-conference-archive/

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What if Satan Took Up Marriage Counseling?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 02 Jan 2024 06:00:00 -0500

It sounds like a crazy question, but pause to think about it for a second. What kind of things would he say to you?

Tim Challies article: https://www.challies.com/articles/if-satan-took-up-marriage-counseling/

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Need to Review and Reset for Marital Growth

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 26 Dec 2023 16:46:52 -0500

As this year comes to a close, we want to walk you through an exercise that will help you reflect on the past year and pinpoint areas of your marriage that you would like to improve upon as you head into the next.

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Manner and Method of Speaking Truth WITH Love

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 12 Dec 2023 19:22:14 -0500

You've heard the saying before; it's not what you say, it's how you say it... Join us as we unpack this idea from Ryan's new book, "How a Husband Speaks".

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What if My Spouse Let's Themself Go? Is it Shallow to Care About How My Spouse Looks?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 05 Dec 2023 06:00:00 -0500

Is it shallow to care about how your spouse looks? Our short answer would be no, but there is so much more depth to this question. Join us as we unpack what this might look like in your own marriage and turn to the Word for some wisdom.

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What If I'm No Longer Attracted to My Wife?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 21 Nov 2023 16:59:57 -0500

Husband or wife, have you ever felt like you can relate to this fellow listener's question? The good news is you're not alone, and we have an answer for you. Listen in!

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Help! My Husband Cares More About Guns and Cars than Getting Us a House

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 15 Nov 2023 06:00:00 -0500

Today we're answering a question from one of our listeners and it all boils down to disordered priorities. Listen in as we direct this question back to what the Bible has to say!

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Infertility, Blended Families, Early Marriage Mistakes - Live Q&A with John & Bekah Lovell

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 08 Nov 2023 06:00:00 -0500

As many of you know, a couple of weeks ago we wrapped up our first ever Fierce Families Conference! It was a blessing for us and we pray it blessed each family who was able to attend. We also wanted to make sure that you all could be a part of the fun! Join us for this live Q&A podcast that we recorded with our good friends, John and Bekah Lovell.

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Why Marriage is AWESOME and Worth the Fight

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 31 Oct 2023 06:00:00 -0400

As we love to say, marriage takes a fierce tenacity that never gives up and never gives in. When we press into God's good design, we see marriage for what it was always meant to be; an institution that brings life, and joy, and places the gospel on full display.

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Q&A: Is Birth Control OK?, S** Addiction, Is a Wife Her Husband's Property? and More...

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 17 Oct 2023 06:00:00 -0400

In today's episode, we answer some of our listener's questions. These are some challenging ones, but we hope to shine some biblical light on your uncertainties!

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

10 Reasons Marriages Struggle and Fail - Part 2

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 10 Oct 2023 06:00:00 -0400

Join us as we pick up where we left off last week! We are discussing the final five themes that we have noticed as to why marriages struggle and fail.

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

10 Reasons Marriages Struggle and Fail - Part 1

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 03 Oct 2023 17:29:08 -0400

We've been working with couples in the marriage sphere for over ten years now, and there always seem to be consistent themes that arise from marriages that perpetually struggle and never quite reach their stride. Join us as we discuss these reasons today!

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Busyness, Arguments, and the Language of Gratitude

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 26 Sep 2023 14:05:46 -0400

Lately, we've been in a very busy and full season of life. God is good and he's helping us learn a new language despite it all... the language of gratitude. Join us and be encouraged if you find yourself in a similar season of life!

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Perseverance, NOT Perfection is the Goal

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 19 Sep 2023 14:48:25 -0400

Trying to make your marriage perfect will eventually feel like a lost hope, but trusting in the Lord will bring life and longevity to a struggling marriage. Join us and be encouraged!

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Micro-Decisions that Make a Huge Difference in Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 12 Sep 2023 15:50:26 -0400

The daily decisions you make with your spouse can either bring you closer together or drive you further apart. Join us to hear more about these positive micro-decisions you can make to strengthen your marriage!

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Communication Signals vs. Noise In Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 05 Sep 2023 06:00:00 -0400

Check out this session from our latest communication masterclass which will be released shortly! We hope to share the purpose behind your communication with your spouse and pray it blesses you!

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What if I Got Married Too Young (or I Don't Want to Be Married Anymore?)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 29 Aug 2023 06:00:00 -0400

Have you ever had any thoughts of second-guessing your marriage? You're not alone in this, but you must not stay in those thoughts. In this episode, we want to encourage you and remind you of what true covenantal love looks like.

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Cosmic Cold War on Marriage (and 3 Ways You Can Fight Back)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 22 Aug 2023 06:00:00 -0400

Over time, we have seen the beauty of marriage torn apart little by little by modern culture and it's left us with a false and distorted view of God's good and original design. Listen in to hear how you can fight back against this modern narrative!

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Marriage is NOT Give and Take

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 15 Aug 2023 06:00:00 -0400

Does the title of this episode rub you the wrong way? All the more reason to join us to see what we mean!

New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Prayer books: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

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The Five Facets of a Fierce Man

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 08 Aug 2023 15:56:00 -0400

This week Ryan takes on the show, solo, to help encourage men in five key areas of their lives. Men, you don't want to miss this and wives, be sure to pass this along to your husband! Or, feel free to listen in to learn more ways you can encourage your husbands in their walk of faith.

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UNITY: Why You Need it and How to Get It

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 25 Jul 2023 06:00:00 -0400

So much is at stake when a couple struggles with disunity. We want to help! Our hope is that you would call on God to realign your hearts and establish unity within your marriage. Listen in to hear the full discussion!

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Why Speaking Sensually Is GOOD for Your Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 18 Jul 2023 06:00:00 -0400

This week we're in Song of Solomon discussing what it means to sensually speak to your spouse within a Christian marriage. As Ryan says, "Much to a lover's delight, even these questions have answers in scripture, and hardy ones at that."

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Thoughts Concerning Men and Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 11 Jul 2023 06:00:00 -0400

This topic is something that is very near and dear to our hearts because God has important roles for men to fulfill to help shape the health of our families and society. We hope to encourage you and remind you of the unique purpose men have been given!

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Three BIG Lies Men Tell Themselves about S and P*

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Wed, 05 Jul 2023 06:00:00 -0400

Tune in! This is going to be a challenging, yet necessary episode. The good news is, there is so much freedom in store on the other side of these lies.

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Finding Marital Unity Around MONEY and GIVING

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 27 Jun 2023 06:00:00 -0400

As Christians, are we called to give some of our wealth away? Maybe that question makes you stiffen, or maybe you feel ready to dive in. Either way, join us as we see what the Bible has to say!

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What if We Believe Different Things or We're Unequally Yoked?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 20 Jun 2023 06:00:00 -0400

Today we're answering a question from a listener, that we believe could be a relevant discussion for many of you! Join us as we discuss how to navigate an unequally yoked marriage.

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The 5 Marital Conflict Tactics Explained

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 13 Jun 2023 06:00:00 -0400

One of the greatest challenges in marriage is conflict, but conflict can also be one of the greatest blessings we experience because of the sanctification it brings. Join us as we discuss how to handle conflict well within marriage.

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The Four Communication Styles - Which one are you?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 06 Jun 2023 06:00:00 -0400

Today we're exploring the four communication styles and how they pertain to marriage and the conflicts we may face. We hope it blesses you!

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Your Marriage Covenant is FAR Stronger than You Think

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 30 May 2023 12:23:28 -0400

Your marriage covenant is a gift and a grace from God, designed to be strong enough to get you through the trials of learning to love like Christ.

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Am I Shallow for Caring about My Spouse's Weight Gain?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 23 May 2023 06:00:00 -0400

This week we looked at what the Bible says about health, laziness, gluttony, and physical attraction. God cares about each one... which means we should too!

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Should Non-Believers Even Bother with Marriage?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 16 May 2023 06:00:00 -0400

The short answer is yes. The long answer... well you'll have to tune in to find out!

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Is a Husband's Failure to Provide Grounds for Divorce?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 09 May 2023 06:00:00 -0400

Today we're diving into 1 Timothy 5:8 and discussing what roles a husband must uphold in terms of provision... and if they're not met, is this grounds for divorce? Stay tuned.

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The One Marriage Skill to Rule Them All

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 02 May 2023 06:00:00 -0400

There is one skill in particular in marriage that if learned, can lead to the flourishing of your marriage. Stay tuned to hear more about this skill AND an exciting announcement...

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Intimacy without Obligation

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 25 Apr 2023 06:00:00 -0400

What if we experience obligation when it comes to intimacy with our spouse? Is it right to feel that way? Listen in to find out!

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Should a Working Husband Help at Home?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 18 Apr 2023 06:00:00 -0400

This week we are answering a question from a viewer that many of you may have questioned too! Join us for this interesting conversation...

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3 Lies that Keep Couples Divided

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 11 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0400

Are you believing any of these lies, and if so, how are you to walk in the light? Listen to find out.

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Is the Tradwife Trend Biblical?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 04 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0400

Like any cultural trend, we need to see it through a biblical lens and ask questions. We need to put the trend through the filter of scripture and go from there. Don't know what a #tradwife is? Listen to find out!

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This ONE Question Can Improve Any Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 28 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0400

It's such a simple question, yet cuts straight to the heart and truly helps you improve your marriage. Listen in to find out what this question may be!

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Spicy Hot Takes & Relationship Advice

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 21 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0400

This is a fun one! This episode is packed with lots of biblical truths that we as Christians need to hold tight to, and also some spicy hot takes. We hope you enjoy it!

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Keep Short Accounts

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 14 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0400

Early on in our marriage, we implemented the concept of being quick to apologize and fast to forgive. It has significantly blessed our marriage over the years and we pray it blesses yours too!

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The Thing No One Talks About

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 07 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Service is an act of pursuit and Jesus is the one who modeled it best! Join us as we dive into John 13 and chat about what service should look like in marriage.

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Living (Well) Beneath Your Financial Means

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Ryan and Selena share openly about their own personal debt and how God’s Word led them to freedom through stewardship—regardless of their bank balance. Enjoy!

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Starting a One Match Fire

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 21 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Today we are talking about how to keep the intimacy fire burning. We hope it blesses you!

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How To Stay Connected After Having a Baby?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 14 Feb 2023 11:52:00 -0500

Recently, Ryan made a Facebook post asking people, "What is one unpopular opinion you have?" Today, we're putting Selena on the spot to see what she thinks of all these hot takes... Join us for this fun and candid episode talking about all things marriage and family! Grow in your prayer life: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Unpopular Opinions About Marriage and Family

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 31 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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Fighting S-xual Temptation Like a Man

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 24 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0500

There's no doubt that s-xual temptation is pervasive all around us, but if we don't learn to fight that temptation we will be in a world of trouble. In this episode, we walk through step by step what it means to fight temptation like a man.

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5 Phrases Every Wife Needs to Hear Often

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 17 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Last week we talked to the ladies, but this week it's all eyes on men. Husbands, listen in to hear five phrases your wife needs to hear often.

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5 Surefire Ways to Emasculate Your Husband

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 10 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0500

A current trend in our culture is to rid men of their toxic masculinity once and for all. So in this episode, we aim to do just that! All jokes aside, there is a biblical design for masculinity and there is so much a wife can do to affirm that good gift in her husband.

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How to Write a Family Vision Statement

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 03 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Today is not only our 300th episode, but we are also talking about one of our favorite things... building and implementing a family vision statement! Listen in as we discuss who you are as a family, why you exist, what you value, and what your mission is. All in light of the gospel.

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Why Your Family NEEDS a Mission

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 27 Dec 2022 03:00:00 -0500

A marriage on mission fulfills the Great Commission in ways specific to how God designed marriage to flourish and function. In today's episode, we are unpacking Genesis 1:28 and seeing all God intends for our mission field.

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Secret Weapon #2: Laughter!

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 20 Dec 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Laughter truly is medicine and it is one of the best ways to build friendship within your marriage. Today we're talking about ways to incorporate more laughter into your marriage and of course, laughing along the way.

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Hands Off My Husband!

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 13 Dec 2022 03:00:00 -0500

This week we answered a question from a listener that stated that her husband has a female coworker who is having a hard time respecting physical boundaries. What is the godly way this situation should be handled? Join us for this tricky discussion.

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5 Steps to a Better Relationship with Your In-Laws

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 06 Dec 2022 03:00:00 -0500

We've officially entered the holiday season, which may mean you are spending extra time with your in-laws. In-laws can be a major part of marital strife, but they don’t have to be! Our desire is that you would find joy and grace for your in-laws and enjoy the time you spend together. Listen in to hear 5 steps to better your relationship with them!

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Arguing Over My Husband’s Job?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 29 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0500

We recently received a question from a viewer stating that her husband no longer likes his job, but he doesn't know what he wants to do if he quits. Today we're going to discuss this argument in light of the gospel... we hope you join!

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How to Find (and Agree On) a Church

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 15 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Today we discussed the right questions to ask before deciding on a church to call home. Join us as we share our personal journey and set up a guide for those who are in a similar season of church hunting.

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Help, I Have a Passive Husband!

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 08 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0500

One of our listeners wrote in and described living in a marriage with a passive husband. While it is impossible to change the husband's heart, there is something we can address: How do I live in a godly way within a contentious marriage?

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I Caught My Wife Texting Another Man

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 01 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Today we're addressing a question sent in from a viewer, "I caught my wife texting another man, what do I do?". It's a heartbreaking thing to consider, but there is hope in the heartbreak.

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Are Prenuptial Agreements Biblical?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 25 Oct 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Whether you're a newly engaged couple considering prenups, or perhaps you are married and currently have a prenuptial agreement, join us today as we unpack what the Bible has to say about it.

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Our Secret Weapon for Communication

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 18 Oct 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Our secret weapon for communication is a practice as old as time, but one that is seldom used often enough. Tune in as we discuss ways to have healthy lines of communication that build up your marriage for the glory of God and for your joy.

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Do We Need Marriage Mentors?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 11 Oct 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Many of us have heard the term "marriage mentor" before, but today we want to introduce another, perhaps less intimidating way to receive relational guidance in your marriage.

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(FIXED) Why Is Marriage Worth Fighting For?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 04 Oct 2022 12:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we want to encourage and embolden you to fight fiercely for your marriage and remind you why it's so important.

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Building Biblical Literacy in the Home

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 27 Sep 2022 03:00:00 -0400

If taken seriously, this single topic could revolutionize your marriage, and it's probably the one that most take for granted: Biblical Literacy.

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Prayer's Proper Place in Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 20 Sep 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Prayer is irreplaceable for every healthy marriage... and every Christian life.

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The Dangers of DMs

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 13 Sep 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Can any good come from DMing the opposite sex... when they're not your spouse? We don't think so. Watch to explore alongside us.

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The Husband Paradox

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 30 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0400

How can a husband be tough for his wife, but tender with her? Today we discuss just that.

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Your Tongue is Fire... Does it Warm or Burn?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 23 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0400

The tongue is fire. Will it warm your home, or torch everything to the ground? Today we looked at James 3 and talked about taming the tongue.

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Should a Husband Expect Sex After a Nice Date?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 16 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Is it okay, right, good... or wrong... for a husband to expect sex after a nice date? Let's discuss.

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Masculine Modesty

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 11:02:21 -0400

Last week we talked about modesty and women, this week it's the men's turn.

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Let's Talk About Modesty

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 02 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Much can be said about modesty, but it's taboo to do so in our modern era. Still, what does the Bible say about modesty for women? And before you comment, don't worry: we'll talk about the men next week.

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"My Wife Cheated on Me Before Our Wedding and I Just Found Out... How Can I Move Past It?"

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 26 Jul 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Today we answered a question from a listener about a very difficult topic.

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Sex Gets Boring... and 4 Other Marriage Myths

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 19 Jul 2022 03:00:00 -0400

We all have misconceptions about how marriage will/should be. Here are five we hear the most, and why they're completely false.

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Are You a Gaslighter?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 12 Jul 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Gaslighting: one of those things we know we should know about but are too afraid to ask. In this episode, we explore various ways gaslighting works in marriage and ways to run the other way!

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3 REAL Ways to deal with Financial Uncertainty

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 05 Jul 2022 10:55:49 -0400

Inflation. Recession. Depression? Many are feeling the squeeze of financial uncertainty. Here are three REAL ways to cope.

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10 Top Manipulation Tactics Couples Use

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 28 Jun 2022 11:48:19 -0400

Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What is a woman... by design??

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 21 Jun 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Today we ventured into the minefield of gender and its relevance to marriage and parenting. We discussed the wonder of beauty of being made in God's image, by his design. This is a super exclusive and special collab between Fierce Marriage AND Fierce Parenting... (kidding, sort of). We hope it blesses you!

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Shame and Regret After an Affair

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 14 Jun 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Shame, regret, pain, guilt. All of which are felt in the wake of an affair. But is there hope for healing and getting past the shame? Thankfully, there is! Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Anatomy of an Affair

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 07 Jun 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Every affair that happens follows a pattern. The good news is that you can identify it and and take steps to steer clear. Watch to learn how. Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Dangers of Oversharing in Marriage (Yes, it is possible)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 31 May 2022 03:00:00 -0400

You know we're fans of transparency, but is there such a thing as *too transparent*? In some cases, we think so. Listen to hear why. Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What if my spouse OVER communicates?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 24 May 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Is it possible to OVER communicate? Apparently, it is. Watch to see what that could mean for your marriage! Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

How to Love a Passive or Disengaged Spouse?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 17 May 2022 03:00:00 -0400

When you lose the connection with your spouse, it can feel impossible to bring it back to life. We're here to give some hope and help. Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

5 Ways to Avoid Miscommunication in Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 10 May 2022 03:00:00 -0400

You're sending signals, but are they being received accurately? Today we talk through a few ways to avoid miscommunication in marriage. Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

One is a Talker, the Other is Not

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 03 May 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Many couples face communication challenges because one is a talker and the other is not. In this episode we walked through some ideas to help bridge the connection void if that's you. Enjoy! Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

What if I married an unbeliever?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 26 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0400

One of the toughest question we get: What if my spouse doesn't believe in Jesus? What can I do? Well, today we discuss just that. Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Designing Higher Quality Time

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 19 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Distractions abound, and if we're not careful, they can steal or contaminate the quality time we spend with each other in marriage. This episode is all about ways to fight distraction and design your quality time. Enjoy! Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Immeasurable Importance of Friendship and Fun

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 12 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Friendship always adds vitality and fun to your marriage. In this episode we talked about what the Bible has to say about fun, and look at how that reality can transform our friendship. Enjoy... and have fun! Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

A Few Tools for Transparency

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 05 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Today we talked about three specific, tangible tools for building a more transparent marriage. Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Margin for Marriage in the Chaos of Life (Shaun and Abbie Halberstadt)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 29 Mar 2022 08:28:00 -0400

Today we spoke with Shaun and Abbie Halberstadt—a godly couple gifted with 10 children!–about how they maintain a healthy marriage relationship in the chaos of everyday life. Abbie is the founder of M is for Mama, her blog, and recently published a book by the same name. Enjoy! Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Avoiding Lies and Deception in Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 22 Mar 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Marriage is impossible without honesty. But, we've found, many couples find it easier to lie to one another than you might think... Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

These 3 Lies Will Drive You Apart

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 15 Mar 2022 03:10:00 -0400

Becoming isolated from each other and community is the quickest way to create division in your marriage. Today we'll discuss three lies that typically lead to isolation and how to avoid them. Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

5 Argument De-Escalation Strategies

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 08 Mar 2022 03:00:00 -0500

We all know it... that moment when you feel a conversation take a turn for the worst. Things begin to escalate and a fight seems inevitable. In this episode, Ryan and Selena talk through five ways you can keep the "turn for the worst" from happening. Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Can we meet you? ...WE CAN!

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 01 Mar 2022 03:00:00 -0500

The best growth happens alongside others. That's why we'd love for you to join us for our next online marriage cohort starting March 7th! Don't delay, get an early enrollment discount by signing up at https://fiercemarriage.com/cohort We hope to see you there! --Ryan & Selena

How Do We Handle Anger In Marriage?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 22 Feb 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Anger, in all its forms (which we discussed) will prove toxic if never dealt with. So, let's talk about it! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Your Sin No Longer Defines You

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 15 Feb 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Sometimes we just need reminders of God's forgiveness and goodness. This can be particularly true for couples. Hear this: when you are in Christ and you place your full trust in him, your sin no longer defines you. Instead, Christ's perfect righteousness is yours, you are loved, and nothing can change that. Now, consider this: how does that truth and realization change your marriage? Listen in to find out! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

4 Steps for a Healthier Sex Life AFTER Having Kids

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 08 Feb 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Having children definitely changes your sex-life, but that doesn't mean it has to get worse. Listen in for 4 tangible steps you can take after having kids to keep things healthy and strong in the bedroom. You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Should We Live Together BEFORE Getting Married?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 01 Feb 2022 12:08:00 -0500

For many reasons, no. No, you shouldn't. Watch to find out why! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

6 Ways to Affair-Proof Your Marriage (Remix)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 25 Jan 2022 18:54:34 -0500

No couple plans to have an affair! Why not learn steps to safeguard against one? In this remixed episode, Ryan and Selena talk through some tangible ways to wisely guard your marriage from all manner of affair—physical and emotional. You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The 3 P's That Can Poison Your Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 18 Jan 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Let's examine three key areas that can potentially poison your marriage. The good news is... there's an antidote! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Crafting a Family Vision/Mission (Replay)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 11 Jan 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Few things have been as impactful in our lives and marriage as our family vision. In this replay episode we'll discuss the components and reasoning behind our family vision journey. Watch the our FREE YouTube course,"5 Truths for a Healthier Perspective on Sex" via this link: https://youtu.be/lf-8S9Ln9oE You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

How to Pray as a Couple (with Less Awkwardness)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 04 Jan 2022 03:00:00 -0500

We asked couples what keeps them from praying together, and the #1 answer was: it's awkward. So, we did a whole episode on how to pray with your spouse (in a way that's not too awkward). Enjoy! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Quick Announcement

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 28 Dec 2021 18:41:57 -0500

To join our January marriage cohort, go to https://fiercemarriage.com/cohort. We hope to meet you there!

The Myth of the Soulmate

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 21 Dec 2021 03:00:00 -0500

Is there just ONE person you should marry? What if you think you married the wrong person? In this episode we talked about why the idea of the "soulmate" is a myth, and everyone would be better off if it just went away. You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

Burn the Ships! Why Not Having a Plan B is a Necessity in Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 14 Dec 2021 03:00:00 -0500

One of the best ways to make your marriage sustainable is to torch all backup plans. Why? Because only then can we begin to fully realize what covenant means. How? In a word: trust. We must trust that God designed marriage covenantally for a reason... even when it feels impossibly hard. Join us to explore what burning ships could look like in your marriage. You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

The Great Marriage Killer

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 07 Dec 2021 03:00:00 -0500

Most relationships start out well, but then a certain something comes along and cracks the foundation. If left alone, it will eventually poison the entire marriage. What is it? Well, you’ll have to watch/listen to find out! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

God is love...but, love isn't God!

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 30 Nov 2021 03:00:00 -0500

Love might not be what you think it is. In this episode we'll look at the wonderful, counter-cultural, biblical idea of love. Enjoy, and thanks for listening! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch!

Purposeful Sendoffs (The Home, 4 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 23 Nov 2021 03:00:00 -0500

What an opportunity we have, as Christians, to view our days as more than simply coming and going to/from work, activities, church, the store, and wherever else daily life takes you. What if every exit from the home was a strategic send-off of an ambassador out into the world? God has provided opportunities for us to live out the Great Commission uniquely and purposefully within our day. In today's episode, we discussed just that. Enjoy! Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is live and ready for your participation! It's a great way to build a solid marriage foundation get on the same page once and for all. It's built for all couples—newlyweds, nearly weds, and those who have been married for years. Visit GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more. Thanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit FierceMarriage.com/Partner. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including early episode releases, free books & ebooks, silicone wedding rings, and exclusive ministry updates.

Bringings Others In (The Home, 3 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 16 Nov 2021 04:00:00 -0500

Is your home a place where others see and experience Christ? What does that even mean...? In this episode, we explored three questions: How is Jesus our model for hospitality? Is your home a place that welcomes those who need Christ? And, is your home a place where ministry within the body of Christ happens? We hope this episode blesses you and others by way of your family! Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is live and ready for your participation! It's a great way to build a solid marriage foundation get on the same page once and for all. It's built for all couples—newlyweds, nearly weds, and those who have been married for years. Visit GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more. Thanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit FierceMarriage.com/Partner. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including early episode releases, free books & ebooks, silicone wedding rings, and exclusive ministry updates.

What is a "Home"? (The Home, 2 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 09 Nov 2021 16:14:13 -0500

What is a home, exactly? In today's episode we explore how the places and spaces we call home are more than houses. They're also so much more than "live, laugh, love" signs and pinterest-perfect furnishings. Listen in and be encouraged: your home is a place where profound things happen, and probably more often than you think. Enjoy! Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is live and ready for your participation! It's a great way to build a solid marriage foundation get on the same page once and for all. It's built for all couples—newlyweds, nearly weds, and those who have been married for years. Visit GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more. Thanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit FierceMarriage.com/Partner. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including early episode releases, free books & ebooks, silicone wedding rings, and exclusive ministry updates.

Seizing Missional Moments (The Home, 1 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 02 Nov 2021 05:30:00 -0400

Our mission is point couples to Christ and encourage them in the Gospel, but what can be said of the spaces those same couples occupy, namely, the home? In this new series, we'll be looking closely at the home and the role it can play in the spiritual formation, emotional connection, and missional alignment of you, our lovely listeners. Enjoy! To learn more about the 40-Day Prayer Journey which we mentioned in this episode, visit 40Prayers.com. Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is live and ready for your participation! It's a great way to build a solid marriage foundation get on the same page once and for all. It's built for all couples—newlyweds, nearly weds, and those who have been married for years. Visit GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more. Thanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit FierceMarriage.com/Partner. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including early episode releases, free books & ebooks, silicone wedding rings, and exclusive ministry updates.

Protecting the Purity of Your Sex Life (Sex Talks, 4 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 26 Oct 2021 05:00:00 -0400

Every treasure needs protecting and your sex life as a married couple is no exception! We've spent the last four weeks talking in depth about why sex is a blessing, how to enjoy it more fully, and pitfalls to avoid, but how do we intentionally protect our sex life? What are we protecting it from? What tactics can be used to be effective in protecting it from would-be "defilers"? In this episode we explore the 3 "defilers" of marital sex and ways to create boundaries to keep those things out and ALL the God-given goodness in. Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is live and ready for your participation! It's a great way to build a solid marriage foundation get on the same page once and for all. It's built for all couples—newlyweds, nearly weds, and those who have been married for years. Visit GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more. Use promo code: SEXYTIME to save 25% on your enrollment at GospelCenteredMarriage.com. Limited time promotion. Thanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including early episode releases, free books & ebooks, silicone wedding rings, and exclusive ministry updates.

What is "Simmering"? (Sex Talks, 3 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 19 Oct 2021 05:30:00 -0400

It's 10x easier getting water to boil if it's already simmering. Could the same be true for our sex lives as Christian married couples? In this episode we explore the how the idea of "sexual simmering" could be helpful for your marriage. Rest assured, we dive into scripture as we explore, and as you'll find, God's Word isn't silent even on the topic of simmering. We hope our conversation helps and blesses your marriage as we continue our monthly theme of sex and intimacy. Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment! It's a great way to build a solid marriage foundation get on the same page once and for all. It's built for all couples—newlyweds, nearly weds, and those who have been married for years. Visit GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more. Use promo code: SEXYTIME to save 25% on your enrollment at GospelCenteredMarriage.com Thanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including early episode releases, free books & ebooks, silicone wedding rings, and exclusive ministry updates.

The 5 Modes of Sex (Sex Talks, 2 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 12 Oct 2021 10:24:40 -0400

What if one of you is in the mood and the other isn't? And what could "modes" have to do with solving your frustrations in that moment? In this episode we elaborate on our previous talks about "the spectrum of sex" by introducing 5 modes of sex. We hope it helps you! Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment! It's a great way to build a solid marriage foundation get on the same page once and for all. It's built for all couples—newlyweds, nearly weds, and those who have been married for years. Visit GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more. Use promo code: SEXYTIME to save 25% on your enrollment at GospelCenteredMarriage.com Thanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including early episode releases, free books & ebooks, silicone wedding rings, and exclusive ministry updates.

"Married Sex" (Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Thu, 07 Oct 2021 05:30:00 -0400

This months "Sex Talks" series continues with a bonus interview with Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta about their new book Married Sex: A Christian Couple's Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life. This is a tricky topic, and we so appreciate Gary and Debra's willingness to come on and talk with us and our listeners so candidly. We pray it blesses you. To get a copy of their book, find it wherever books are sold or visit https://amzn.to/3abTa50. Also, as mentioned at the end of the episode, we did a full second Zoom video with Gary and Debra, it it's ONLY available on our learning platform for marriages, https://GospelCenteredMarriage.com. Sign up and save 25% with promo code: SEXYTIME. You'll also get access to our growing suite of marriage enrichment material, including our 6-Week Marriage Core course. Here's the description of their book: A great sex life is something you make, not something you find. If you feel confused or frustrated about your sex life--or simply wonder, Is there more to it than this?--Married Sex is exactly what you need to make your marriage stronger, in and out of the bedroom.

The 7 Reasons for Sex (Sex Talks, 1 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 05 Oct 2021 05:30:00 -0400

Sex talks! This episode begins our series that's all about sex. Today we talked about the 7 (Biblical) Reasons for Sex in order to set the stage for more granular—and perhaps tougher—talks in coming weeks. We hope that as you listen, we're able to put words to feelings you've felt and give you tools to begin building a healthier, more Christ-centered sex life in your marriage.

Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

It's a great way to build a solid marriage foundation get on the same page once and for all. It's built for all couples—newlyweds, nearly weds, and those who have been married for years. Visit GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more.

Use promo code: SEXYTIME to save 25% on your enrollment at GospelCenteredMarriage.com

Thanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including early episode releases, free books & ebooks, silicone wedding rings, and exclusive ministry updates.

Skill #4: Making Sex Better (Back to Basics, 4 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 28 Sep 2021 05:30:00 -0400

As we finish out this series on marital basics and skills, we're discussing the topics of sex and intimacy. The trouble most couples face in this area stems from a misunderstanding of the very nature of their sex life as a couple and the fact that it is, in fact, an area where you're meant to grow and explore and figure out over your lifetimes together. If you've ever felt frustration or disappointment in this area, you're in the right place. Listen and be encouraged!

Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Use promo code: BASICS to save 20% on your enrollment at GospelCenteredMarriage.com

Skill #3: Fighting Well (Back to Basics, 3 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 21 Sep 2021 05:30:00 -0400

If a couple can't fight productively, things will be very difficult for them. In today's episode we discuss practical ways to build the essential skill of arguing well as a couple. We hope it helps and blesses you, enjoy!

Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Use promo code: BASICS to save 20% on your enrollment at GospelCenteredMarriage.com

Skill #2: Teamwork (Back to Basics, 2 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 14 Sep 2021 05:30:00 -0400

A constant reminder that floats throughout the Frederick household is "we're on the same team(!!)." There is no replacement for truly being in unity, advocating for one another, making memories, and valuing one another as equally important parts of the marital team. The best part? Teamwork in marriage is a habit you can cultivate and if you do, it will revolutionize your relationship. We hope this episode challenges and blesses you.

Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Use promo code: BASICS to save 20% on your enrollment at GospelCenteredMarriage.com

Skill #1: Self Control (Back to Basics, 1 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 07 Sep 2021 21:14:06 -0400

Welcome to SEASON 5 of the podcast. We can't believe it! This week we're launching a new series that's all about getting back to the basics. Over the next four episodes we'll be talking through four skills, or basics, that are necessary for a marriage that thrives. We hope it blesses and helps you!

Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

USE PROMO CODE: BASICS to save 20% on your enrollment at GospelCenteredMarriage.com

Big Announcement! (Identity, 5 of 5)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 31 Aug 2021 04:00:00 -0400

Listen in for a special announcement! It does tie into the series... don't worry. :)

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Heads and Helpers, Part 2 (Identity, 4 of 5)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 24 Aug 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Today we continue the conversation about biblical roles for husbands (as heads) and wives (as helpers) in Christian marriage. Before you listen to this episode, make sure you've listened to last week's Part 1 release. Then, make sure you listen to this whole episode before jumping to conclusions. We trust that as we talk through the implications of God's word, it will edify and encourage you in your walk with Christ and your relationship with your spouse.

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Heads and Helpers, Part 1 (Identity, 3 of 5)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 17 Aug 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Few topics ruffle feathers like biblical roles, especially when you talk about ideas like headship and submission in marriage. In this episode we began a conversation (that continues into next week's episode) where we unpacked the what the Bible says about roles in marriage. Next week, we'll look at the implications for husbands and wives who are seeking to live in full light of what Scripture says on the matter. We hope our conversation encourages you and helps shed some light on this sometimes murky topic.

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Who Are We as "Us"? (Identity, 2 of 5)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 10 Aug 2021 06:30:00 -0400

You may have heard the biblical idea that "two became one flesh" when they get married. But what does that mean functionally? In this episode we talked through the implications of that statement when it comes to aspects of our individual identities as they are retained (or discarded) in a one-flesh marriage. Thanks for listening, we trust you'll learn something and we pray it blesses you!

ALSO: Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Marriage Reconstructed (Identity, 1 of 5)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 03 Aug 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Identity is everything these days. Ideas, politics, gender expressions, race, and sexual orientation, and countless other variables all have one thing in common in today's culture: they can be your identity if you want... and no one can tell you otherwise. The holy grail of our culture is being able to actualize your most ideal self at any cost and through whatever means necessary. But this ability has come at a staggering cost: truth itself has lost its meaning, and this trend has eroded our understanding of marriage and being married people, even among Christians.

This episode is the first in our 5-week series on Identity. Today we talked about the identity of marriage itself, and in the coming weeks we will discuss our identity as "us", biblical gender roles, and more. We hope it blesses you a lot and challenges you as much as necessary. Stay fierce!

ALSO: Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

5 Habits to Consistently Feel Joy Together (Joy, 4 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 27 Jul 2021 06:30:00 -0400

In past episodes we've looked at why joy is rightfully attached to our emotions. But, we don't have to wait until we feel joy to stir it up in ourselves! In this week's episode we talked about 5 very tangible things couples can do to have consistent joy together. We hope it blesses you!

ALSO: Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Dealing with a Persistent Lack of Joy in Marriage (Joy, 3 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 20 Jul 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Every couple experiences seasons where things feel joyless. The question is, What do you do to rekindle the joy in your marriage when those times come? In this episode we looked at ways the Bible instructs us to stir our affections for God and why we can expect to experience joy when we do so within the context of marriage.

ALSO: Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Truly Enjoying Your Spouse (Joy, 2 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 13 Jul 2021 06:30:00 -0400

You love your spouse, but do you *like* them? It was affection that brought you together, but what should you do when affection fades and marriage begins to lack joy? In today's episode we talked about truly enjoying each other by looking at three ingredients necessary for a joy-filled relationship.

ALSO: Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

The Roots of Marital Joy (Joy, 1 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 06 Jul 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Everyone wants a joy-filled marriage—one that's happy and where you feel love for your spouse and you feel their love reciprocated. Life happens, joy fades, and where does that leave us? As Christians, we have the promise of joy as we walk in step with the Spirit. So, what should do in times when joy feels foreign and impossible to find? In this episode we'll look at the biblical roots of joy in the Christian life as we open up this series on what it takes to build a joy-filled marriage. Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss the upcoming episodes!

ALSO: Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

War Story, Part 2 (Steven and Brooke Elliott)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 29 Jun 2021 06:30:00 -0400

In April 2004, Army Ranger Steven Elliott was deployed with the 2nd Ranger Battalion to Afghanistan. The objective of operation “Mountain Storm” was to kill or capture Osama Bin Laden. On April 22, Steven’s squad was attacked by enemy combatants which resulted in 4 casualties, one of whom was former NFL safety, Pat Tillman.

This is part two of our interview with our good friends Steven and Brooke Elliott. Theirs is a story of tragedy, depression, grace, and redemption. It’s our prayer that by hearing their story you can marvel with us at the goodness of God to repair and restore lives, even when all hope seems lost.

You can find Steven’s’ book, War Story, wherever books are sold or by visiting WarStoryBook.com. Additionally, Steven and Brook are the founders of The Elliott fund, which exists to advocate for reform in how the unseen wounds of war are viewed and treated so that the broken places can be made whole. To learn more, visit ElliottFund.org.

War Story, Part 1 (Steven and Brooke Elliott)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 29 Jun 2021 06:29:00 -0400

This is part one of our interview with our good friends Steven and Brooke Elliott. Theirs is a story of tragedy, depression, grace, and redemption. It’s our prayer that by hearing their story you can marvel with us at the goodness of God to repair and restore lives, even when all hope seems lost.

Make sure to listen to the next episode for part two of Steven and Brook’s story. You can find Steven’s’ book, War Story, wherever books are sold or by visiting WarStoryBook.com. Additionally, Steven and Brook are the founders of The Elliott fund, which exists to advocate for reform in how the unseen wounds of war are viewed and treated so that the broken places can be made whole. To learn more, visit ElliottFund.org.

Priorities and Unity Q&A

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Thu, 24 Jun 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Today is all about your questions! Listen in as we seek to address your questions about priorities and unity from a biblical perspective. We hope it blesses and helps you.

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

It's a great way to build a solid marriage foundation and/or finally get on the same page. It's built for all couples—newlyweds, nearly weds, and those who have been married for years. Visit GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more.

Priorities, Practically Speaking (Priorities, 4 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 22 Jun 2021 06:30:00 -0400

In this episode, things get practical. How do we step down the path of reorienting our priorities? How do we overcome the challenges and obstacles that stand between us and the priorities God is convicting us to live by? We'll walk you through our story of writing our first Family Vision statement, and at the end, we'll give you a link to get a free copy of our ebook, "Crafting Your Family Vision Statement".

Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

The Freedom in Finding Unity (Priorities, 3 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 15 Jun 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Finding unity is the first step in functionally living out your priorities. Every couple wants unity, but few manage to get there. Why is that? We'd say it's because they've never taken the time (or had the opportunity) to discuss and seek deep agreement on their priorities. In this episode, we'll discuss the benefits of unity and some of the challenges necessary to get there. We hope it helps you!

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Last Things (Priorities, 2 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 08 Jun 2021 06:30:00 -0400

What if we lived in full light of God's eternal promises in Christ? What if we read the book of Revelation as the hope-filled source of joy that it is? And what if we understood the full past, present, and future richness to be lived out as a result of Christ's resurrection? Everything would change. Everything. In this episode we'll explore all of that and more. join us and be encouraged: this life is not the source of our hope, Christ is!

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

First Things (Priorities, 1 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 01 Jun 2021 06:30:00 -0400

"If you don’t prioritize your life, someone else will." As Christians, we have the clearest and most compelling reason to live life differently by design. Except, so many of us live just like everyone else: prioritizing this life and the things of this world over eternity and the things above. In this episode we'll kick off our series on priorities by looking at what the Bible says about "First Things" in the Christian life. We hope it helps and blesses you!

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Trust and Betrayal Q&A

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Thu, 27 May 2021 15:35:21 -0400

Today is all about your questions! Listen in as we seek to address your questions on trust/betrayal biblically. We hope it blesses and helps you.

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Maintaining Trust After Rebuilding It

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 25 May 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Over the past few weeks we've discussed what biblical trust looks like, what to do in the wake of broken trust, and how to get started on the path toward healing. Today we covered how to maintain trust in your marriage through four tangible steps: observe, inspect, assess, and maintain/repair. You'll have to listen for the details, since those words may not mean what you first think! We hope it blesses you.

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

--- As promised in the episode, here's the list of "one-anothers" in Scripture. Enjoy!

Accept One Another (Romans 15:7)
Agree with One Another (1 Corinthians 1:10)
Be Devoted to One Another (Romans 12:10)
Be Humble Toward One Another (1 Peter 5:5)
Be Kind and Compassionate to One Another (Ephesians 4:32)
Be Patient with One Another (Ephesians 4:2)
Build Up One Another (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
Confess to One Another (James 5:16)
Don’t Grumble Against One Another (James 5:9)
Don’t Provoke One Another (Galatians 5:26)
Do Not Slander One Another (James 4:11)
Encourage One Another Daily (Hebrews 13:3)
Equal Concern for One Another (1 Corinthians 12:25-27)
Fellowship with One Another (1 John 1:7)
Forgive One Another (Ephesians 4:32)
Greet One Another (Romans 16:16)
Honor One Another (Romans 5:10)
Instruct One Another (Romans 15:14)
Live in Harmony with One Another (Romans 12:16)
Live in Peace with One Another (1 Thessalonians 5:13)
Love One Another (John 13:34)
Love One Another Deeply (1 Peter 1:22)
Offer Hospitality to One Another (1 Peter 4:9)
Pray for One Another (James 5:16)
Serve One Another (Galatians 5:13)
Spur One Another On (Hebrews 10:24)
Stop Judging One Another (Romans 13:14)
Submit to One Another (Ephesians 5:21)

The Path to Rebuilding Broken Trust

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 18 May 2021 06:30:00 -0400

The path toward repairing and rebuilding trust is neither easy to find nor quick to travel. Your heart hurts and your relationship seems like it will never be the same again. Could it be that God wants to use this difficult time to show you more of his mercy, goodness, and grace? Could it be, that this could make your marriage better than ever before? In this week's' episode we discuss ways to trust God while you rebuild trust with your spouse, and we outline tangible ways to set your feet on a path toward true, lasting healing after experiencing betrayal or broken trust. We pray it helps you.

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

The Moment Your Trust is Broken

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 11 May 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Experiencing broken trust can leave you disoriented, in denial, or in a panic. The first key to stepping down the path toward healing is to get your bearings, look at God's Word, and take tangible steps of faith toward rebuke (not easy), repentance (must have), and reconciliation (worth it). In this week's episode we looked closely at God's model for reconciliation and shared candidly about some trust issues we've been working through recently. Thanks for joining us!

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Trust, Trustworthiness, and Betrayal

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 04 May 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Trust and betrayal are among the most important topics couples will face. Can you trust one another to... listen well, be supportive, handle your heart and vulnerability with care, remain faithful, love your children well, and help around the house (to name a few)? In this episode we start our series on trust, exploring what "Cruciform trust" looks like and why some versions of trust in marriage actually aren't biblical... you'll have to listen to get the full explanation! We hope it blesses you.

Announcement! Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Boundaries Q&A

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 06:30:00 -0400

We asked our listeners to submit questions about boundaries and the response was overwhelming. In this special release episode, we addressed many of those questions which centered around a few common themes: in-laws, opposite sex friendships, phones, and life as a married couple. We hope you find it helpful!

Announcement! Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Boundaries and In-Laws

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 27 Apr 2021 06:30:00 -0400

This is a struggle every couple understands. How do we maintain healthy boundaries with relatives, especially when those relatives (though well-meaning oftentimes) are difficult to be around? How do we graciously communicate when boundaries have been breached? And what do we do to "hold the line" when they refuse to respect healthy boundaries? In this episode we dove deep into what the Bible has to say about family relationships and looked at ways we can love honor our parents (and other family members) without compromising our convictions or values in the process.

Announcement! Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Boundaries and Sex

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 20 Apr 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Boundaries are an inherent part of every married couple's sex life. The question is, are your sexual boundaries clear? Are they communicated? And are they actively enforced? In today's episode we'll walk through two critical passages of Scripture that teach us about boundaries and discuss examples of how they can be applied in marital life. Enjoy!

Announcement! Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!

Boundaries and Your Children

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 13 Apr 2021 13:12:02 -0400

Children are awesome, but having kids at home (particularly young ones) can have some not-so-awesome effects on a marriage. Today is the second in our series on Boundaries, and we discuss how and what boundaries are necessary between you and your kids for the good of your union. It was a lively discussion and we hope it blesses you!

HEY! Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is now open for enrollment!

It's a great way to build a solid marriage foundation and finally get on the same page. It's built for all couples—newlyweds, nearly weds, and couples who have been married for years. Visit GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more. New mini-courses are being added to the enrichment library monthly!

All About Boundaries

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 06 Apr 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Boundaries are biblical. Boundaries are also intuitive: we all know we need them. Still, why do we feel that our boundaries in and around our marriage are constantly in flux or non-existent? In this episode we looked at three main reasons why we lack clear boundaries in marriage, and talked through some of the underlying principles that help us live with stronger boundaries in marriage. We hope it blesses you!

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is now open for enrollment!

Identifying and Explaining How You Actually Feel

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 30 Mar 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Talking is a skill, and not everyone has it. In fact, most don't! This is usually a result of being obscured—or unseeable—to ourselves. A skilled communicator knows how to identify and explain how they feel, and that usually starts with knowing how to examine your own heart and mind. In this episode we talked through the biblical foundation for knowing yourself for the purpose of glorifying God and being more completely known by your spouse in marriage. Then, we talk through some very tangible tools to help you put words to your emotions so you can connect more deeply and fight alongside one another more effectively. We covered a lot of ground, so buckle in and enjoy!

The specific resources mentioned in this episode are available on our website, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/identifying-and-explaining-how-you-actually-feel to access those!

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is now open for enrollment!

The Art of Active Listening

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 23 Mar 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Most people rarely experience being *deeply* listened to; you can give your spouse that gift! Last week we talked about Selective Hearing, which is all about catching every drop of what your spouse communicates. This episode puts that conversation on steroids: learning how to seek out and gain insight into each other and internalize it in healthier ways. If you ACTIVELY listen to this episode, you'll hear us share three distinct incentives for learning and applying this valuable skill in your own marriage. :)

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is now open for enrollment!

Dealing with Selective Hearing

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 16 Mar 2021 06:30:00 -0400

There are three types of selective hearing, all of which have the same result: poor communication. Today we talked through the common ways couples fall into selective hearing habits and cover tangible ways to break the habits in their relationship. We hope this episode helps you!

Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is now open for enrollment!

How to Talk About Sex

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 06:30:00 -0500

Every healthy married couple should not only prioritize sex but also communicating on the topic of sex. None would likely disagree (at least, not in most modern contexts), because what can a couple lose by talking about their sex life together? This a peculiar topic because it’s one area where we’ll heartily agree with the culture’s message: it’s right, good, and healthy to talk about sex in marriage! Where we do differ, however, has to do with why and how we believe couples should discuss their sex life.

Our brand new marriage learning project, Gospel Centered Marriage is now LIVE. It's a great way to get a solid marriage foundation and finally get on the same page. Visit GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more. New mini-courses are being released monthly!

Talking About Talking

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 02 Mar 2021 06:30:00 -0500

Healthy communication is like breathing: you take it for granted until you can't do it. This week we're starting a series on communication by laying some groundwork and dissecting the Bible's most common verse about communication (hint, it's not actually about communication). Finally, we cover 5 basic habits every couple needs to talk and listen with greater skill and intentionality. We hope it blesses you!

Be Romantic or... Repent??

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 23 Feb 2021 06:30:00 -0500

What if someone told you that you needed to repent for a lack of romance in your marriage? You'd probably respond like us: bewildered, defensive, and with nervous laughter. In today's podcast episode we'll dig beneath the surface understanding of romance and talk about how how it's connected—in more ways than one—to the states of our hearts. It was a fun, challenging talk but our pain is your gain. Enjoy!

Out of the Dust (Chris and Stephanie Teague) (Replay)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 16 Feb 2021 06:30:00 -0500

Chris and Stephanie lived the ideal romantic story. They were highschool sweethearts, they loved each other, and they shared a love and devotion for God. Everything changed when Chris lost his faith, left Stephanie, and filed for divorce. They thought they had reached the end of their story, but God had other plans.

To learn more about Chris and Stephanie and Out of the Dust, visit outofthedustmusic.com. If their story has encouraged or helped you, you can support them by buying their album on iTunes or on their website (all info can be found on their website).

Thanks for listening!

5 Hurtful Phrases to Delete From Your Marriage Vocabulary

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 09 Feb 2021 06:30:00 -0500

It’s impossible to define everything everyone should or shouldn’t say in every situation. However, there are some phrases that are usually unhelpful for marriage. Join us as we explore each one!

The 5 Biggest Obstacles to Transparency During Lockdown

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 02 Feb 2021 06:30:00 -0500

We're finding that even though couples are spending more time together than ever, they're still drifting apart. Physical closeness doesn't automatically beget emotional intimacy. In this special episode, we discussed the 5 most common reasons husbands and wives fail to be fully known by each other. This recording is from a special online event hosted by Impactus Ministries (Promise Keepers Canada). Visit Impactus.org to learn more.

All About Attachment Styles

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 26 Jan 2021 06:30:00 -0500

Attachment styles are all about the way you interact the way you do, particularly around need, affection, and conflict. In this episode we talked through the four common attachment styles for relationships and, as usual, looked at Scripture to see how the gospel informs this area of marriage. We hope it blesses you!

Our brand new marriage learning project, Gospel Centered Marriage is now LIVE. It's a great way to get a solid marriage foundation and finally get on the same page. Visit https://GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more.

What, exactly, is a gospel centered marriage?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 19 Jan 2021 06:15:00 -0500

If we're not careful, the word "gospel" can become cliche and ineffectual in our hearts, but as the people of God, we must never move beyond the miracle and outworkings of it! In this week's episode, we took a deep dive into what it means to be a truly gospel centered couple. And, as usual, we had some fun along the way! We hope the content we covered blesses and convicts you as it did us.

As we mentioned, our brand new marriage learning project, Gospel Centered Marriage is now LIVE. It's a great way to start your year getting trained and on the same page. Visit https://GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more.

The Wonder of Contentment

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 12 Jan 2021 06:15:00 -0500

Like a virus, discontentment infects and sickens every healthy aspect life and marriage. It infects our affections, our views of each other, and our very trust in God. Author Nancy Wilson wrote, "Contentment is the result of spiritual strength that comes directly from Christ. Contentment is the ability to stay satisfied with God’s will in all circumstances, whether easy or difficult. Though it is simple to understand, it is certainly not easy to do."

In this week's episode, we looked at the wonder of Christian contentment and explored practical ways to nurture attitudes of trust and gratefulness within marriage. We hope you leave this episode with an ambition to rejoice and love Christ wherever you're at.

Rhythms > Resolutions

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 05 Jan 2021 16:43:50 -0500

Rhythms are on of God's graces in this life. Days, seasons, years—all have reliable, consistent, and predictable rhythms. How can we reflect God's faithfulness through our own? And how could our mundane rhythms be more powerful and productive than grand resolutions? In today's episode we discussed our misgivings and excitements around goal setting, and offered some biblical thoughts that (you guessed it) are contrary to those of our culture.

Mentioned: Our brand new marriage learning project, Gospel Centered Marriage. It's a great way to start your year getting trained and on the same page. Visit https://GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more!

Coming from a Divorced Home

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 29 Dec 2020 06:30:00 -0500

Divorce affects the majority of married couples today—some 75% of couples have one or both spouses who come from a divorced or blended family. This week we discussed a few of the unspoken but very common ways that divorce affects individuals and the marriages they occupy. Selena shared some of her personal experience and reflected on recent reading she's done on the subject.

ALSO... we made a pretty fun announcement! You'll have to listen to find out... :)

Lead Me (Matt Hammitt of Sanctus Real)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 15 Dec 2020 21:58:58 -0500

Matt Hammitt had performed his hit song, “Lead Me,” almost a thousand times. And every time he sang, the lyrics echoed the voices of his own family. His marriage was strained. His kids were growing up without him. Matt’s good intentions could no longer sustain his family; he needed to be a man of action. Yet even as he told his Sanctus Real bandmates that he was leaving the band to invest in his family, he wondered: Was it really possible to be present at home and still provide financially too?

Are opposite-sex friendships appropriate?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 08 Dec 2020 13:29:47 -0500

Many find themselves in one of two camps on this topic: "avoid opposite-sex friends like the plague" or "don't be a prude". We think there's a third way—one that's biblical and wise. In this episode, Ryan and Selena will discuss this controversial topic while sharing their own experiences and biblical understanding of how we “can have the wisdom to know and enjoy the blessing of friendship in a way that honors both our marriage and our brothers and sisters in Christ—while ultimately bringing glory to him.”

5 Resources to Help Your Marriage (and a Frederick Family Update)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 01 Dec 2020 06:30:00 -0500

Not going to lie, we've been going through it. So this week, we've opted to give our amazing listeners a Frederick family update and point you to some tangible resources to help your marriage. We hope it all makes sense, and we thank you for your patience, prayers, and support. Stay fierce!

Here are the links to the episodes we mentioned:

An Ethic of Protecting Your Family, Marriage, and Home (The Lovells): https://smarturl.it/fmpod-lovells
Out of the Dust (The Teagues): https://smarturl.it/fmpod-teagues
Burn the Ships: https://smarturl.it/fmpod-burntheships
5 Keys to a Healthy Perspective on Sex: https://fiercemarriage.com/5-keys-to-a-healthy-perspective-on-sex
Are You Obviously Married in Public? https://fiercemarriage.com/are-you-obviously-married-in-public

Sex as a weapon?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 24 Nov 2020 06:30:00 -0500

One of the first pieces of advice we as newlyweds was to never use sex as a weapon. What we've come to realize, however, is that sometimes it should be... just not how you might think. Listen in as we discuss Paul's words on the topic.

The Warfare of Prayer

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 17 Nov 2020 06:15:00 -0500

Everyone knows marriage has incredible highs and very frustrating (and difficult) lows. In today's episode, we shared how we've been in a prolonged "funk" lately but have found a path forward through prayer. Listen in as we discuss the miracle of prayer for believers and practical ways you can make praying a part of your ongoing battle strategy in your fight for a God-honoring, flourishing marriage.

5 Things To Say To Your Spouse Daily

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 10 Nov 2020 06:15:00 -0500

Let's get practical. In this episode we discussed five phrases you can say to each other every day that will ensure the "structural trends" in your marriage are for the better. While each of these phrases will sound common, as we discovered, each one represents a profound underlying belief you hold (or don't hold) about God, yourselves, and your marriage. We hope this episode blesses you!

Thanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including early releases, free books, ebooks, silicone wedding rings, and exclusive ministry updates.

Striving to Enter Rest

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 03 Nov 2020 06:15:00 -0500

Striving to enter rest sounds counterintuitive. Funny enough, that language comes directly from Scripture (Hebrews 4). In today's episode, we discussed the biblical idea of Sabbath and what it means for Christian homes today—and how you, as a married couple, can "strive to enter rest" the way the bible commands.

Emotional Lust and Escapism

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 27 Oct 2020 06:15:00 -0400

You've probably heard pastors warn against physical lust a time or two. But have you considered "emotional lust"? What about emotional lust (and physical lust for that matter) as an unhealthy avenue for escapism? In this week's podcast episode, we discussed emotional lust at length while also examining what we're calling the "Pretend Cycle", or the cycles of escapism. We enjoyed this conversation and trust that you will find something helpful as you listen. Enjoy and be blessed!

Thanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including free books, ebooks, silicone wedding rings, and exclusive ministry updates. Patron levels start at just $2/month.

The One Habit You Absolutely Need

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 20 Oct 2020 06:30:00 -0400

There is nothing in this life that will transform your heart (and marriage) like thoroughly reading and obeying God's Word (the Bible). In today's episode we discussed our recent journey into a new type of "bulk" scripture reading and shared ways it's already transformed our hearts. Of course, we don't have it all figured out, but we hope that by sharing our journey you might be spurred along in your own habits of Bible reading.

Marriage is Warfare

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 13 Oct 2020 06:15:00 -0400

What if we told you that marriage matters more than we realized? What if we told you that whenever you fight for your marriage, you're engaging in cosmic warfare. In this episode, we looked at the magnitude of marriage and looked at three specific battlefronts where we wage the warfare of marriage. We hope this episode blesses and emboldens you!

Thanks for listening to the Fierce Marriage Podcast! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including free books, ebooks, silicone rings, and exclusive ministry updates. Patron levels start at just $2/month.

From Breakdown to Breakthrough (Counseling, 4 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 06 Oct 2020 06:30:00 -0400

There are times in every marriage where you reach a full stop in your communication. Things ice over and you can't find a way forward. Before too long, your marriage drops to sub-zero temperatures and you're fighting for your survival. In this week's episode, we talked about the nature of communication (what it accomplishes and how) and discussed tangible ways to fight through arctic tundras of verbal/emotional frozenness.

This four part series has been created in partnership with Faithful Counseling. Visit https://faithfulcounseling.com/FMP to receive 10% off your first month of counseling.

Codependency (Counseling, 3 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 29 Sep 2020 06:15:00 -0400

Are you in a codependent relationship? How would you know if you were? In today's episode, we asked questions to help couples identify signs of codependency in their marriage. We then looked at the forms and functions of codependent relationships before contrasting them with the healthier alternative: biblical interdependence. We learned a ton and we trust you will too!

This four part series has been created in partnership with Faithful Counseling. Visit https://faithfulcounseling.com/FMP to receive 10% off your first month of counseling.

Addressing Anxiety & Stress (Counseling, 2 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 22 Sep 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Anxiety is one of the most pervasive and persistent issues in mental health within the church. How does the Bible speak to anxiety? What hope can we have when dealing with an anxiety disorder? Also, how can God use biblical counseling to help couples work through issues of anxiety, stress and worry? In this episode we discuss our own experiences and seek to shed light on how we, as Christians, can navigate anxiety with the help from the Holy Spirit, our spouses, and good counsel.

This four part series has been created in partnership with Faithful Counseling. Visit https://faithfulcounseling.com/FMP to receive 10% off your first month of counseling.

Do all couples need therapy? (Counseling, 1 of 4)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 15 Sep 2020 06:45:00 -0400

The idea of counseling conjures all manner of reaction. Some couples spurn it, others welcome it. Why? And, can all couples benefit from counseling? In this episode, Ryan and Selena talk about whether or not counseling aligns with God's Word, and if so, how it might help couples, whether they're going through a difficult time or not. We hope this episode blesses you!

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How often should we be having sex?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 08 Sep 2020 06:30:00 -0400

If you've ever felt discontent with your sex life, you're not alone. in this episode, we answered the oft-asked question, How often should we be having sex? As you'd imagine, we looked at various passages of Scripture and contrasted the biblical view with that of the world. We then ended with three very practical questions for you to ask yourself and your spouse about your sex life together. Enjoy!

When is the right time to have kids?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Should we be the final word on when to have kids? Or should every married couple have as many kids as possible because children are a blessing? Or... maybe these are the wrong questions to be asking in the first place? In this episode, we make an exciting announcement and, coincidentally, it has a ton to do with how we ask/answer the question "when is the right time to have kids?" We trust you'll find our conversation challenging and we hope you find it helpful as well.

Worldviews and Marital Unity

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 25 Aug 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Your deepest held beliefs, while they affect every aspect of life (including marriage), aren't always biblical. This can make it incredibly hard to discuss sensitive topics or work through deep disagreements in marriage. As we've discussed often, your beliefs always inform your behaviors. In this week's episode we talked about what a worldview is while contrasting biblical Christianity against 5 non-Christian worldviews. You may be surprised how often non-Christian worldviews influence your family dynamic. We had a ton of fun with this one, and we hope it blesses you!

The Secret (and Super Obvious) Ingredient

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 18 Aug 2020 06:30:00 -0400

This week we recapped a few recent arguments we had to help illustrate how this one ingredient changes everything. While our fights had to do with dinners and sex, they each actually had nothing to do with either. You'll have to listen to the episode to discover what that means! Spoiler alert: the ingredient is super obvious, but how it's added makes all the difference. We hope it strengthens your marriage!

Narcissism and Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 11 Aug 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Words like vanity, self-love, self-admiration, self-absorption, self-obsession, conceit, self-regard, and egotism all have one thing in common: the self is viewed as the crux of importance. They also describe narcissistic personality disorder.

Everyone is selfish to a degree, but narcissists are self-focused at an extreme level. In today's episode we discussed narcissism as a personality disorder, explored ways narcissists hurt their spouse, and revealed why, at its root, narcissism is a rejection of the gospel (which is the only cure). We're not psychologists, so this podcast is an overview based on research done by others. We hope it helps you!

Infertility and Childlessness (Sheridan Voysey)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Thu, 06 Aug 2020 13:03:55 -0400

Sheridan Voysey and his wife, Merryn were devastated when they realized their dream of having children would never become a reality. After infertility, an international move, and a professional change shook the Voysey's world, Sheridan realised that he couldn’t reconcile his expectations with the life he was living. In today's episode, Sheridan shares their story of heartbreak, despair, healing, purpose, and finally, joy. It was an immensely helpful episode for us, and we hope you can say the same.

Sheridan is the author of seven books, the latest being The Making: Who We Can Become When Life Doesn’t Go as Planned, which been featured in publications like The Times, Sunday Telegraph and Christianity Today. You can find all of his resources at SheridanVoysey.com or anywhere books are sold.

Decision Drivers in Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Decisions, decisions! The average couple makes hundreds of small decisions and many significant ones on a daily basis. The question is, where do our choices come from? As we discussed in this episode, every decision is rooted in some core value, and our core values have to do with our views of wisdom and folly as well as our ability to act on our views. This conversation got a bit heady, but we still had fun with it. We hope it blesses you in some way.

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Serving is Pursuing

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 28 Jul 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Serving is not likely to make it to the top of most people's "things that are sexy about marriage" list. Still, serving one another is one of the most profound (if not THE most profound) ways to love each other in marriage. In today's episode, we discussed three ways Jesus showed us to serve one another when he washed his disciples' feet. We also shared some of what's been going on personally as it's been a particularly emotional season in the Frederick household.

In this episode we worked through one of the devotions included in our Husband/Wife in Pursuit bundle. You can learn more about that at 31DayPursuit.com.

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Surviving Infidelity (Tina Konkin)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Thu, 23 Jul 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Infidelity causes catastrophic damage to a marriage. Can it be survived? In today's special interview with author and speaker Tina Konkin, we discuss just that. Tina shares with great detail how God used her husband's affair, despite the damaging effects, to transform her heart and her marriage for the better. Listen in, we hope it blesses you.

Read Tina's book, "How God Used the Other Woman" or check out TinaKonkin.com to learn more.

Thanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including free books, ebooks, rings, and exclusive ministry updates. Patron levels start at just $2/month.

Rebuilding Trust After a Betrayal

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Being betrayed by the one you love is one of the worst feelings imaginable. How can a couple find reconciliation and healing after trust is shattered. It's not easy and it requires both spouses to work hard, but there is hope. In today's episode we discussed stories in betrayal in the Bible—namely how we've betrayed God in sin—and what they can show us about finding reconciliation in the wake of betrayed trust. This episode is a bit longer, but the topic is heavy. We hope it helps you.

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Manipulation in Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 14 Jul 2020 06:15:00 -0400

As we discovered, there is a vast array of manipulation methods at play in human relationships. The question is, which ones are you unwittingly using against each other in your marriage? Rationalization, minimization, lying (by omission and commission), shaming, vilifying, seduction, and many other methods might be at work in ways you're unaware. In this episode, we explored what the Bible says about manipulation (as it turns out, it says a lot), and discussed ways out of manipulative habits for couples to explore.

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Know Your Soil

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 07 Jul 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Today we discussed gardening (of all things) and how "knowing our soil" in marriage is critical to loving each other in the fullest context of covenantal love.

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Sexual Intimacy (Sharon Jaynes)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Thu, 02 Jul 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Have you ever felt that the person you thought was your best friend and your spouse has turned into more of a roommate? If so, then this conversation will help you. Sharon Jaynes is the author of many books, but in this interview we're discussing Lovestruck: Discovering God’s Design for Romance, Marriage, and Sexual Intimacy". We hope this conversation helps you see your marriage from a fresh perspective and perhaps, it will help you reignite the passion that was there in the beginning.

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Laugh More!

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 30 Jun 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Laughing is one of the best ways to break your marriage out of a funk. Could it be that laughter is a gift and a grace of God designed specifically to lift our hearts and clear the air in our relationships? In this week's episode we answered three questions about laughter and talked through various examples in Scripture where laughter, playfulness, and childlike faith.

We hope this podcast helps you and blesses your marriage. If you'd like to help keep this content coming, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage to explore partnership options.

Expectations are Everything

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 23 Jun 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Expectations are constantly at work in every marriage. The question is whether or not we're aware of them and in agreement on what they should be. In this episode we posed dozens of questions for listener consideration about expectations in sex, money, communication, in-laws, hobbies, divisions of chores/labor, church, and more.

While this episode will be particularly helpful for our nearly- and newlywed listeners, couples of all stages of marriage are sure to learn something about themselves. We hope it blesses you!

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A Truer, Better, More Exciting Normal (Matt and Lisa Jacobson)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Thu, 18 Jun 2020 12:49:00 -0400

The Jacobsons are a gift and a blessing. In this episode we talked about how God's view for marriage and family is so much better than our own or the world's. We specifically covered when to have kids (they had 8, and late!), the adventure of marriage God's way, porn & purity, how to prioritize your marriage over kids, and so much more. This interview is one of our favorites, and we're confident you will be blessed by the Jacobsons!

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Are Your Hearts Hard or Soft?

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 16 Jun 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Soft hearts are necessary for a healthy, thriving, happy marriage. But our tendency is not to remain soft toward each other. Bad days happen, tiredness, sin, crisis, arguments, and more can contribute to each of the three indicators of whether or not your hearts are soft toward one another. We also discussed four efforts you can employ today to help soften your hearts if you feel them hardening. We hope it blesses you!

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Having Political Disagreements as a Couple

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 09 Jun 2020 14:21:00 -0400

With everything going on in society, we thought it would be timely to discuss ways to have productive political conversations as a couple. While we didn't cover the hot-topics themselves, hopefully this episode will help you and your spouse "come to the table" and hash out tough political disagreements. We discussed the four big presuppositions to every conversation, the cultural lies they dispel, and how to apply them when talking about (and disagreeing on) hard things. We hope this episode helps you!

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Bringing Husbands Back to Life (Jerrad Lopes of Dad Tired)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Thu, 04 Jun 2020 06:30:00 -0400

In today's episode we talked with Jerrad Lopes, author of Dad Tired: Stumbling Your Way to Spiritual Leadership. Jerrad shared how his wife's prayers softened his heart when he thought they were on the brink of divorce, and we also talked about what helps bring men back to life in fatherhood and marriage.

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Take Heart, Hope is Yours

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 02 Jun 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Though this episode is still about marriage, we never anticipated how timely its message of hope would be. In today's episode we encourage listeners to remember that marriage is less about perfection and more about perspective and perseverance. You're both learning, you're both going to make mistakes, and you're both works in progress. God hasn't given up on either of you yet, so neither should you. Take heart, listener. Christ is your hope and he is unshakeable!

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How to Change Your Spouse

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 26 May 2020 06:30:00 -0400

If you could change one thing about your spouse, what would it be? Life would be so much easier if we could just change our spouse, right? The problem is, God never called husbands and wives to change each other... heart change is God's domain alone. So, what can we do when we're living in a relationship where we're unequally yoked and change is needed, but you're powerless to make it happen? Thankfully, we're not without hope.

In this episode, we talked through the two domains God has commissioned us to work within, and shared three tangible steps you can take today to begin walking with greater faith in your marriage. We hope it blesses you.

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Dealing with Toxic People (Gary Thomas)

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Thu, 21 May 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Today we got to talk with our friend Gary Thomas about his latest book When to Walk Away: Finding Freedom from Toxic People. When and where do believers draw the line when people are toxic and draining?

For more information, visit WhenToWalkAwayBook.com!

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Discerning the Voices That Speak Into Your Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick — Tue, 19 May 2020 06:30:00 -0400

A listener asked, "who we should let influence our thoughts, opinions, and actions" in life and marriage. Join us as we root out the where and why we believe voices and ideas that shouldn't have input into our lives. Warning, things got a little more fiery... but we still had fun.

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Fierce Marriage

The Plague of a Cruel Husband or Wife (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 9/10)

The Plague of Financial Hardship (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 8/10)

The Plague of Mettlesome In-Laws (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 7/10)

The Plague of a Passive Husband (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 6/10)

Unequally Yoked Marriage (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 5/10)

When a Husband Doesn’t Lead Spiritually (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 4/10)

The Plague of a Sexless Marriage (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 3/10)

The Biblical Framework That Fixes Communication QUICK

The Wholehearted YES! How Wives Can Joyfully Submit to Their Husbands

Adultery, Betrayal, and S*xual Sin (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 2/10)

An Honest Look at Ongoing P*rn Use (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 1/10)

When Working Harder Doesn't Work: Becoming a Truly Fruitful Marriage

If Bearing Fruit in Your Marriage Feels Forced, You Need to Hear This

More Questions to Diagnose the Spiritual Health of Your Marriage (Part 2 of 2)

10 Questions to Diagnose the Spiritual Health of Your Marriage (Part 1)

I Love You But I'm Not IN Love with You...? Understanding Love

What to Do When a Husband Won't Lead Spiritually?

What if a Wife Struggles to Submit?

What if a Husband Is Addicted to WORK?

7 Tactics the Devil Uses to DESTROY Your Marriage (Part 2)

7 Tactics the Devil Uses to DESTROY Your Marriage (Part 1)

The Single Biggest Predictor of Divorce and How to Avoid It in Your Marriage

How Modern “Dating” Culture Destroys Christian Marriages

9 Ways Husbands Forsake Their Wives

When a Wife Struggles to Honor Her Husband

10 Horrible Tips for Marital Arguments

How to Create a Biblical Vision Statement for Your Family in 2026

Struggling With Discontentment in Your Marriage? A Biblical Response

How to Have a GOOD Sex Life (According to the Bible)

The 3 P's that Will Poison Your Marriage (Revisited)

Mocking Wives? When a Wife Struggles to Respect Her Husband: A Biblical Response

Are S*x and Intimacy Challenges Helpful? Maybe

The 15-Second Kiss Experiment Revisited

Covenant Over Comfort: The Cosmic Purpose of Marriage Part 2

Covenant Over Comfort: The Cosmic Purpose of Marriage (Part 1)

The One Habit That Will Change Your Marriage Quickly and Forever

What Women Really Need in Marriage

The World Needs Spartan Wives

The World Needs Fierce Men

How to Thrive in Marriage During Season of Change

When is the Right Time to Have Kids or Stop Having Kids?

Dealing with Anger and Abuse Biblically in Marriage

Awesome Saving Strategies for Future and Fun

Common Arguments Couples Have Around Money

Should a Wife Expect Her Husband to Do Household Chores?

The 'Man Pout' — What Is It, and How to Cure It?

The Unstoppable Power of a Grace Filled Marriage

Will These "Magic Questions" Help Your Marriage? (Part 2 of 2)

Will These "Magic Questions" Help Your Marriage? (Part 1 of 2)

3 Sure Signs of a Healthy Couple

True Friends will Advocate for Your Marriage and Not Just for You

What if My Husband Has a Low Sex Drive?

Women, Wives, and Friendship

Preparing for Marriage and Not Just the Wedding

Seven MYTHS About Marriage You Shouldn't Believe

7 Things to Say to Each Other DAILY

FACTS vs. FEELINGS in Marital Arguments

BOUNDARIES: Dealing with Toxic In-Laws

Advice for Improving a Difficult Marriage

The Power of an Admiring Wife

Responding to the Gottman's 4 Horsemen of the Relationship Apocalypse

Fighting Well and Learning Resiliency

12 Tactics of the Devil to Destroy Your Marriage (Part 2 of 2)

12 Tactics of the Devil to Destroy Your Marriage (Part 1 of 2)

3 Ways to Keep a Clean House

Are You in a Truly Christian Marriage?

How to Pray Together in Marriage (even when it's awkward)

Big Announcement!

What if I'm in a Sexless Marriage?

Why You NEED to Join a Good Church for the Good of Your Marriage

GRATITUDE Changes Everything About Marriage

Learning to Love IN-LAWS Better

5 Lessons Learned to Stop Arguing About MONEY

5 Ways to FINALLY Get Unity Around Time and Priorities

Lessons Learned about S X in 20ish Years of Marriage

7 Ways to Have Better Conflict In Your Marriage

4 Massive Lessons Learned on Communication

The Greatest Adultery Repellant Known to Man

20+ Creative Date Ideas to Stay Connected

Three BIG Lies Men Tell Themselves about S and P*